I think that it's wrong to tell an individual about how stuff work in our society, right and wrong about a human. It is the thing that had been told by generation of human civilization to their younger generation, what is wrong and forbidden from the act of true human but they all were wrong, our parents and elders were wrong. If a human commit a crime, it is not that he is not aware of his evil act but he perform it because it is the thing that help him to aquire his intention and that crime is the easiest mode of attaining it than where is he wrong? The crime get its definition from others who themselves are busy commiting their own.
The fact that crime is an act of embarrassment to an individual only due to the reason that the others consider it wrong, irrespective of the opinion of the person committing it at that moment because if the performer doesn't consider it wrong or he has reason to himself or escape route than I don't think he is wrong.

well i dissagree to a point
there are many things that they taught me that i still agree with them is wrong
and some i dont agree with

its up to you to set your own boundrys
only you can deside what is right and wrong

one of the fist things comes to mind is rape
i do think that is wrong , so if someone did it to you , you would be ok with it cause they thought it was right ??

another one that comes to mind , some punk kids thought it would be fun to sucker punch the elderly for fun , but to you , you getting sucker punched and at times put in the hospital is ok cause to them it was there fun ?

child abuse, sleeping with a taken person ,murder , etc etc etc

my list of wrong can go on and on , more then i would like to type

i still think we run full circle and what we do comes back to haunt us , as well as it affects others
and if i get really lucky i get to see that karma bus come back to visit others


<shrug> but people will do what they want to do

best wishes in your life

Datwasntme.
I totally agree with you but I was reffering to small fraduary in relationship like cheating your partner, etc.

So, you are trying to make an excuse for people committing crimes?

well i dont think that is right either
you made a comitment to that person by being in a relationship with that person

if you are unhappy then end it an move along and let them do the same

its not right to the other person , as well as you could pick up a s.t.d. and bring it to them

so cheating on them is not only harmful to them, but you are all so cheating on your self by breaking your comitment with that person as well possibly with the person that you are having the cheating with
i do say possibly cause i don't know if you are paying them or if they are thinking that they might have found some one (none of my buissness really)

i know cheaters are a deal breaker for me
but to me cheating is wrong <shrug> not cause of what my parents say but because of the person i am

So it's wrong to teach your child cheating is ok?

To me, cheating isn't a little thing

I know in casual youthful relationships some think that cheating is a minor fraud not really worth getting worked up over. Like stealing a penny candy. Someone young might cry for and instant and forget it.

But it depends some hold that betrayal and make it a habit. They do unto others before it can be done unto them. It starts a painful and wasted circle in the relationship realm because they soon learn no one trusts them or is trust worthy. That is a very miserable way to live life.

Sometimes people try to teach you a lesson about not wasting a single star fish but really it is a lesson about the ocean of humanity and how you can be happier in it by developing small habits into a value system. .

What happened to the pornography topic?

Parents won't let you watch it? Is that the problem?

Because Will Smith said "Parents just don't understand."


Most parent and elder and social teachings of right and wrong are about trying to make you aware of the consequences to behavior.
Not simple moral superiority, or moral comparisons.


You can think you're "right" to cheat your partner, or that doing so isn't "wrong," until you're blue in the face.
It doesn't entitle you to acceptance of your behavior by your partner.

Most parental and elder and social training for right and wrong are shortcuts for your benefit, to realize "if I do this, than this other thing will happen, and it's generally universal in this culture. Knowing this makes my life easier, so I can interact within civilization and a culture without having to constantly relearn simple basic rules."

Without generally accepted rules of right and wrong (like don't cheat your partner) handed down everything would be like constantly trying to learn a new language that is potentially all swear words that people will kill you for uttering.

if you think you're right and know everything, why bother asking?

just know that every choice you make in life has consequences.
you want to commit a crime, be ready to accept the consequence.

There is thin delicate line between being a humorous person and hurting someone feeling. Most of the time people try to be humorous but end up by bullying the victim.
What are you doing, on which boat are you riding, Do you able to understand your own psychology mam? I don't think so.
Don't feel annoyed, I'm just trying to be humorous but was on the same boat riding with, do I mam?