I have been married for 8 years and I have two great kids but never loved my wife and that's all I ever wanted

So why did you marry her & have kids with her if you didn't love her ?

if you never loved her, why did you marry her?

What did you want???
2 Kids born into a life; dad doesn't love mom????


Do I believe as the title says.

Yes a resounding yes...

do you know what love is?

Although I believe there is some subterfuge afoot in this topic, I will say this:

If all you ever wanted was to love your wife, then love her.

It's easy...you just go home and follow the pictograph daily. In no time you will find yourself loving your wife.



But if you don't want to do it, let her go so someone else can have an opportunity to give her love.

Oh, yeah, just like all the other inquiring minds want to know, why did you have kids with her and marry her if you did not love her?

Was it the boinking? Be honest!

Think this kind of thing happens more than many like to admit. there is mutual attraction in beginning or lust or a strong mutual liking and caring for one another..depends perhaps on your definition of love. I have heard some say " I love my wife but I have never been in love with my wife" meaning sweaty palms heart palpatating gaagaa in love

are we supposed to live our life with one person? no, your supposed to want to...

M not quoting nything but related to this topic i would lime to say few things

Its really not a compulsion to be with a person for whole life if u do not love that peraon

Love is a special feeling it may be from both the sides orsingle sided,, but even if a single partner does not love other one then without breaking heart in a good manner some middle way should be found out.

Taking a hypothetical exame if i would have been married and i love my wife at the same time if she loves other person so ill let her go for her happiness because i love her.


But to be tovether with compromises is not a good idea

I feel you, dawg. But why then swear an oath of loyalty and fidelity during an elaborate ceremony in front of an audience if the bond it is intended to signify can be so trivialized?

Hmm oath and all, well i believe many thing we end up doing just for the sake of doing it, just because 1000 years back someone made a ritual we end up following it, without loveand affection all these rituals and oaths are waste.

When asked why they got married some couples say it was just the next logical step after being together for awhile.

After 8 years and two children, this is a discussion you should be having with your wife...Tell her I wish HER luck, love and happiness...

ma'am ma'am!
I think I know the answer.
Either arranged marriage or forced marriage.

You are just being a romantic.

Reality is that it was the steady booty!

I'm truly sorry for your wife. Can I email her?

yea, that should be good... you feeling the need to ruin someone elses marriage too?

Okay...I will ask the question....do you think he meant to say that he has discovered after 8 years of marriage that he realized that he was never IN LOVE with his wife? Cause if so, then I can see the why he asks the question.

personaly it would crush me to find our my husband stayed with me not for love but out of duty. Like the others said why marry her if you don't want to spend the rest of your life with her. Dont you think you should work on the marriage especially because you have children and you haven't said there is anything particularly wrong with the marriage itself.

Sounds like he's bored and looking for fling on side
"Oh woas my wife doesn't understand me" kind of thing