Gotta admit, I get frustrated at times. Been on mingle for a while now, and the search for someone to vibe with jsut doesnt get easier. Lots of woemn out there, just ... most of the ones on here are jsut not doing much for me at all. I guess that's on me, not them. It isn't their fault at all. I just have high standards, and...things aren't clicking....I dunno, cant really describe how I'm feeling.It's just been a lot of dissapointed sighs of "is this IT?"
So, I'm just going to look for friends. Less pressure, and I can jsut be who I am without feeling obligated to be "more" than that.
Those who dig me will dig me for whatever reasons.
And those who don't won't.
Not giving up completely, but I havent really met many people on here who I'm all that interested in romantically.
I'm at a place where I know exactly what I want, but... maybe this isn't the best time to go looking for it. It's a little discouraging, and I know eventually I'll bounce back.
But....it is what it is, I guess.
And don't worry, I'm sticking around!
See everybody in a few days. Need to unwind for a bit.
find my center again.

.. go catch your second wind.. .. I know you what you mean.... the caliber of women I get local to me..hmm.... how should I put this...hmmm... maybe I shouldn't say anything at all

. that's not to say there are not some great ladies that live local to me...pink....lol... and a few others..lol

I know what you mean.
Try living in a small country in the middle of no where with ocean all around you.

That's why there is mingle on my phone lol
Decided friends is the only way.
Lol I am happy

All the men want my booty here, including the OP. My heart just belongs to one man.

Actually a lot of women here also want my booty.

Good things come to those who believe, better things come to those who are patient and the best things come to those who don't give up.
Good luck in your search!

I'd be waiting with open arms for a good hug!

anybody else know what this chick's malfunction is. she seems REALLY TROUBLINGLY SELF CENTERED and kinda makes everything about herself.....????

Not to label but chick seems kinda.....I dunno, I'm loathe to finish this sentence.
anyway, whatever!

Haahaa.somehow I can relate. I was getting pretty fed up with type of messages I was getting..wasn't even bothering to respond anymore when I stumbled into the forums. I am glad did
Got to meet some awesome people

Probly cuz they know you might be a dude? Not that there's anythong wrong with that if thats what you're into.

I think you just answer your own question... just be yourself & not think about think women want or try to impress them.

I haven't found anything close to what I'm looking for.

Really now? So that must have been why you inboxed me. Not that there is anything wrong with that if that's what you're into.

just a lot of the female attention i am getting is...less than articulate, i guess. they're too vague, they give annoying, one word answers, and i really need someone with a bit more....personality, let's say! Kinda hate waiting on these vague mystery chicks to write me back, so I'm only letting the right ones in...and THEY are gonna have to the unspeakable and (GASP!) write ME first!
I need passion, I need personality, I need paragraphs, articulation, I need someone as open and deep as an ocean and not someone whose walls i have to climb jsut to see the barren wasteland of uninteresting stuff.
Hate to rant, but I'm feeling rather passionate right now.
so, there you have it!

Look OP.....you cannot take my title as resident Mingle Man-Ho. I locked that chit down and.......oh wait....that's right.....I went all celibant. Carry on!

Uh....okaaaay....

I feel your pain.

Oh I see..hmmm a man that awaits a real conversation. well you could always hang out in here for awhile. you might be surprised. There is nothing wrong with knowing what you want