I watched a program on Oprah and could not believe women were saying
there are no men to date or to fall in love with out there and so they
go for boys 20 years and younger these women were in there late 40's &
50's ! Hard to believe when some one like me works out very hard and in
very goood physical shape and have good looks and can keep up with
anyone 30 years younger that I am. I'm 54 and had a recent pulmonary
exam and the Doctor and computer stated that I had the lungs of a 23
year old male! What in the world are women thinking out there! There is
nothing better than looking in the mirror and being completely honest
with yourself. John

Actually I agree with you and sometimes women that go for the young ones
want that control or have control issues, not all but some

I would just be happy to meet someone in my home town between 40-50 who
don't want to control ME!!

I believe people need to adapt to the new dating now adays. It's not all
that safe out there anymore. Hince the computer dating.

Being yourself and honest about what you want is the best way to go.

I'm not into the young guys, but I can understand why some women are.

yep. me 2!

I, personally have tried the ''young guy thing'' and was married to him
for 13 years...all it did for me is let me have 3 children to raise
instead of two...LMAOFOTF!!!!!

its all good 2 me. i like the young and old gals just the same!!

well i dated both older men and younger man the older man i liked to be
in total control and the younger one acted to much like a kid himself so
instead of 2 kids i had 3

i doesnt really matter. age is a number only!

Age is ONLY a number, your right most men CANT ACT there age most times
anyway. I work in a man field and I'm around them all the time and I
here the stories of how they treat their women and what they really
think of their women and it is sad men really dont grow up until late in
life... Not to say that woman do the same to men cause I'm sure they do,
but the men out # the woman. Men at the age of 40 + are all ready set in
their ways and will not move or alter in amy way but a younger man will
change because he is not grown up yet so as woman, we can change him to
fit what we need (so we think we can)... It does not work most of the
time... only heart sinking emotions left after the fire... To much DRAMA
for me !!!

Did that sound to male pigish ?????

i think part of the problem is that they expect them to be perfect but
don't live up to the same standards that they set

I think the key word is some one to share your life with. I forty six
and if women my age want twenty year olds, that explains why I cannot
find anyone.

Woman love you for who u r, then they change you. So to my older
gentlemen, gotta be aready fo sum achangin, some older guyz have it all
but the wardrobe.

yep... i like being set in my ways!

My ex fiancé was 41 and I'm only 20. I was more mature then he was! But
young ones aren't ready for a real relationship just party and hook up.
So what does that leave me with?

with me sammy?

>.<

A monkey? I don't think so! Lol. Jk. : ) and what kind of person are
you?

I think the problem these days is that most people, regardless of age,
are highly superficial and appearance oriented. Scratch the surface a
bit and you might just find that there are some very interesting people
out there. Your perfect match might not be all that attractive on the
outside, but if you're a mature adult looking for a life partner and not
just a ONS that shouldn't be an issue.

HUM?