I do not send any message friend.

u are send me message & friend request

i am redy for frndship

join the community of the forums

how can chating here

by sending e-mails or in forums

You can NOT chat immediately with someone on this site.

You CAN write a profile that tells people about you and your interests and preferences. The more you write in detail will be helpful.

Be as clear as possible in English since that is the primary language spoken here. However you can speak other languages and see if people see it and understand it. The possibility is good if the thread gets enough views. Clearly English is not your first language I would recommend trying to state the same thing in one or more languages. Mingle is and international site and many Mingle members speak several languages.

You CAN also post in any open thread/forum as long as it is "on topic". Example New Member is a great place to put a general polite Hello to people and tell a few words about yourself. Your responses will go up if you are willing to talk to most people and do not just try to talk to women you think are desirable for and immediate conversation.

There is and Advice and or Technical support forum that may be helpful to get a better understanding how things work. Most forums are not for this purpose. While some posters will be supportive their patience to educate you will be limited.

Few are hear to educate you on English skills or even fewer to tell you how to make friends that would help you leave where you live. Almost none will give you any kind of other assistance.

As a new member read, learn, watch, and learn. Helps if you remember different people have different cultures. Generally here if a person wants to talk to someone they have to make the effort and can not just tell someone to talk to them. Most women on line are offended by men who tell them what to do so tread lightly.

Be aware many people post settings that limit who they will talk to. Or they may ignore your mail if you write them in private email before they invite you to. Many women prefer to see how a person presents themselves in forums first. If you suggest you are only interested in bedroom or pm chats they are going to think you are looking for sex chat and few here are interested in that. It is against site rules to solicit (ask for) that directly. Some will joke about it but it will quickly limit who will respond to you.

If you send more than a limited number of emails then the program will block you as a spammer/scammer; first for a short period with a code, then permanently.

If you become aggressive then almost any member will block you and possibly report you then your membership will be deleted.

You can and will get many scammers that will send you beautiful photos and sad stories but beware they are usually followed by requests for you to buy something or call them. If you do you could easily have your call forwarded and end up with a giant phone charge in only a couple of minutes. NEVER send anyone on line any money, phone cards, or gifts.

boss
how can find friend e-mail address

pacific star gave good advice - only place I might vary is in a stronger empha sis on this being an American/canadian site and the forums almost exclusively English except for the occasional phrase here and there. So if your English is not so good, maybe get someone to help you post. Welcome to mingle

You have to ask that person for it, but is best to use the site email lest people think you a scammer

sorry for my english

but i try