Thank you, every one, for your thoughts.... they asked some tough questions, made me more able to organize my thoughts and feelings and pretty much echoed the strongest feelings I have about this, except you expressed them much better than I could. e.g. He's an a$$, I deserve better and should not let him back in. And you made me tear up at times. The fact that he apologized did mean something, but not near as much as it could have considering it took someone else shaming him into it. There is NO excuse for treating someone in the manner he treated me. And he could do it again.

As far as class, patience and maturity goes, I can pretend for a little while! It took a lot of re-thinking and re-writing to get the message I wanted out without giving in to the foul-mouthed pissed off woman inside! I did not want to give him the satisfaction.

You, there, hiding in the back. Speak up, or as my Canadian G-Ma used to say, ferme la bouche!

.all. I am saying is sometimes...
... you.. become attracted.. to the person. you want them to be..
. but then reality! has a way of throwing a wrench into the mix..
that is all.. ..

From the guys point of view I think I could relate to what he was saying.
Certain situations & stresses in life can tend to end an intimacy/relationship or whatever it was end that way...its not too burden you with his problems & I have in the past done that coz I had a lot of s**t to deal with at the time....

exactly brother Romeo. ..lol..
. and not only that.. but some women.
like to go on and on and on..
... sometimes simple quiet is nice..lol..
.. that is you start a relationship.. you say I'm not looking for full time or needy.. they agree with you..
. but then their texts start coming..
.omg.... what part of" not"full time did you not get...lmao.. I know I'm such a..

In a nutshell, he was a coward in not saying anything to you. Do you need a coward in your life? Doesn't sound like it to me.

does anybody have some popcorn..lol.. and I'm starting to feel really thirsty.. like I have dry mouth..lol..
perhaps a drink if you can't handle it..lmfao... oh my god I feel like such a horrible person right now..
and I don't know why..

A response to indicate not being available is better than no response, i think... Closure is important to people.

Rose colored glasses, I've worn em. Not gonna lie. But I've also believed in what a person has told me they wanted.

.. but funny when it comes to private messages.. that we all receive.. and don't respond to... that's okay .. somehow..oui.. I'm getting confused now..lpl

Yes, you do.

I can't see the picture I just get a blue box with question marks..
but I.. check it out on my other phone.. wow so glad that wasn't a picture of my.. oh nevermind. ...lol..
... a woman scorned and all that. lol..
...

So now, to let all of you know who may be interested, he is hitting on my girlfriend who reamed him.

its like that morning you left me in the sheets without saying bye...I had no closure......I felt so used....

You have a relationship with all of them?

Is she hitting back?

Nooo...you have it the other way around...

Most determinately, with a baseball bat, lol

what a pal..

..soooo..not true.... do you know how much time that would take..lmao..