Topic: a lil advice beeded
jen36's photo
Mon 10/30/06 12:18 AM
how come guys act like they want to be with u then all they want is a
buddy

Morena350's photo
Mon 10/30/06 12:27 AM
hi
jen, sometimes they get the wrong idea, and we end up hurting their
feelings,
and sometimes we do, and it hurts,
because if a guy act like he wants to be with me and then tells me he
just want to be my friend, then he is confused and does not know what he
wants, and who wants to be with someone like that anyway.


morena

DaBadGuy4U's photo
Mon 10/30/06 12:27 AM
sometimes guys are just really dumb and dont even realize wtf theyre
doing or how they make a lady feel. Or sometimes they just assholes and
dont care how ladies feel.

DaBadGuy4U's photo
Mon 10/30/06 12:28 AM
well hers sounds better sorry im a lil rough around the edges i guess
lol

Tneal's photo
Mon 10/30/06 07:12 AM
Buddys are great. If thats what they want then go for it. Show him what
he is missing. Be fun and outgoing, dress up nice, be whitty, and
humorous. Sooner or later you will have a guy notice those talents in
you that the other guy threw away.

We have an advantage over men. We know what we want. Do not settle for
less.

Good luck

no photo
Mon 10/30/06 07:37 AM
Guys know what they want. Most of them anyways. The same can be said
about women. As for guys, they will be less likely to tell you. We have
a tendancy to keep our feelings to ourselves. talk to the guy in a
non-nagging, non-judgemental way & he'll let you know what he wants &
doesn't want & why.

Tneal's photo
Mon 10/30/06 07:42 AM
PleasureyouMan... could you please come talk to my brothers then?? *S*
Non of them know what they want. All 5 of them are a bunch of yo yo's
lol

no photo
Mon 10/30/06 08:01 AM
it can depend on age too. that can make a big difference. you're average
person who is under 25 or even 30 many times doesn't know what they
want. That goes for men and women. If you are under 30 and know what
you want in life then I think you're ahead of the game. To talk to guys
you can't just go up to them and start talking. It's been recommended
that you do some type of activity (fishing, biking, hiking, etc) and
then slowly ease conversation in.

michael1313's photo
Mon 10/30/06 08:04 AM
hahahaa"Tneal"yo-yo's..lol...anyway ot put in my 2cents,,,sometimes too
the messages are crossed or a bit confusing and could mis-lead you into
thinking sombody wants more from th friendship...M

Tneal's photo
Mon 10/30/06 08:22 AM
michael-- you get alot of that in chat too. You can say something and
someone may misread what your TRYING to say. Its hard sometimes to
exspress yourself through type, your voice is not heard, your face is
not seen.

I do try to clarify myself if someone gets the wrong impression of what
I am trying to say.

I have found that men just like to talk about everyday things just like
women. Just different everyday things... *S*