Yes Jess You got booked ---- For going too slow Guess we won't throw the entire book at ya, just pages.

I was doing mph, but don't tell the officer...

how can one be responsible for how his "BOOK" is viewed by another each person will have their own interpretation based on what they are looking for in that person or otherswhether we interpret it for them than you have to deal with how they make up, their own mind too many variables that i would not want to be responsible for ..i would have to put it down as eitherb you like me or you dont i am what you see before you not so much physical ..but wouldnt it depend on what kind of person their looking for as to how they will interpret.it would also depend on where that person is in his or her own life and their life experiences ..right

Tomb are you saying WYSIWYG "What You see Is What You Get"?

If so, I believe it is more how one leads their own life IE I am responsible for my own actions If they cause another to stumbe their stumbling is my fault.

beats everything u have written in here is beautiful and truthful and i thank u for it.

what i am saying is that you are who you are how a person interprets you is basically up to them you can explain yourself but that doesnt mean they will understand what you are conveying

ok they have their own preception "filters" to deal with?

people every day give advice on these forums without knowing everything they nonly know one persons side of things and on that they form an opinion on what kind of advice they give that person i.e i met this girl once who told me that her boyfriend slapped her and on that i gave some advice ..no i dont believe in hitting a woman i personally never have ,but what she left out was that he caught her in bed with his best friend , i think i might have looked at things a little different had i known that

True, I'll leave it at that

tombraider:

my thread intent was not advice. as i stated in the last sentence. it is something i think people should consider for themselves, for their own functioning.

as well,
i stated that it was entirely me working this out in order to be able to explain it to a friend.

so drop the dukes and lighten the load, because simply, it isn't possible to be wrong or right within an opinion on an abstract :)

Thanks living

not a problem. i jst think its sad when people get into a debate about what i might type here, since most of the serious things i type are of an abstract nature, and individualistic at best.

well, unless of course they want to fight with me, which is fine, cuz its fun then :D

I was just trying to understand Tomb and he was getting huffy. One of the few times I wasn't hassling but trying to understand a differing POV.

hey john...
well i didn't want to say it and sadly, i have to say it.

that last post you made sounded out of sorts as well, and i don't know what kind of conflict is normal for you...

however...

in my world? it takes two to disagree...

so responsibility is equal, and accountability is declared.

life has it's risks.

those who do not learn from their past mistakes are doomed to repeat them.Everyone has a discomfort in one form or another.




I don't like onions..............

there are entirely too many words here to read.......

read it he actually makes some sense this time..........

he prolly does but Im looking for easy reading.......not a novel....throw me some cosmo next!

A doesn't test others and is ticked off when B does...

No one likes to fail on their exams.

And wear your seatbelt in the discomfort zone..

sooooooo does A like B or are they just **** buddies? and if they are where can we get a C to help spice up the D?