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Topic: Divorcing you!
eileena9's photo
Wed 10/10/07 11:30 AM
When the other person is putting you down so much that thoughts of suicide go thru your head more often than "do I need to stop and get formula for the baby?" it is a BIG reason to get out of the marriage.

They don't change even with counciling...and it isn't healthy for person being verbally abused or the children having to listen to that.

starsandhearts's photo
Wed 10/10/07 11:31 AM
wat the hell!i'm not on no damn high horse!no one knows their futre,but if u take a vow 2 get married u should stay married...till death do us part....or does no one follow their vows anymore...guess not...there r way too many devorces out there,sorry didn't mean 2 offend anyone.this is the truth though!

beccalee1980's photo
Wed 10/10/07 11:33 AM
well i don't believe in divroce either and my ex always said he didn't either, but when it was all said and done, he wanted to get a divorce because he didn't love me and wanted to see if the grass was greener. no matter what i said or did he wouldn't listen. his mind was made up. so there really wasn't anything i could do about it. he single handedly made the decision...and yes i think divroce is terrible but sometimes it is unavoidable.
Becca

no photo
Wed 10/10/07 11:34 AM
starsandhearts - that is a fairytale mindset...

I support those who wants to save their marriage but why if both are not happy. We make mistakes and we are only human if we fail. Marriages end for a reason ...better to be real than to live a fairy tale

beccalee1980's photo
Wed 10/10/07 11:36 AM
i agree sin. there was no avoiding it in my case, no matter how much i would have wanted to.

starsandhearts's photo
Wed 10/10/07 11:36 AM
that's true sin,i just don't understand y so many peeps get devorced

eileena9's photo
Wed 10/10/07 11:38 AM
well I just told you the reason for mine...verbally and physically abusive partner who was starting to transfer his feelings of rage onto our children.

beccalee1980's photo
Wed 10/10/07 11:39 AM
see? i agree that is a perfectly good reason for getting a divorce. why should someone stay with someone who is going to abuse them?

starsandhearts's photo
Wed 10/10/07 11:42 AM
that's true,i'm sorry everyone i know there r some reasons thats should cause a devorce but jezzz there r so many i wish u all good luck

unsure's photo
Wed 10/10/07 11:43 AM
Life is not perfect, marriage is far from being perfect. I think if there wasn't divorce ALOT more people would be killed by their spouse.
If you found out that your spouse was cheating on you, would you remain in that relationship? If he kept cheating over and over....I don't think you would stay. If so, you would be teaching your child that its alright to be treated like a floormat. You have to have some pride...even if that means walking away!!

starsandhearts's photo
Wed 10/10/07 11:45 AM
true true....if he only cheated once & was truely sorry......

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