I ve been on here a week or so now and Ive noticed like 70% of the guys are widowed. Is that something I should suspect as being a "scammer"?

Just take your time and don't hesitate to ask them questions. Don't give out your personal contact info quickly, keep a sense of humor, and join us in the forums and have fun! Welcome, and goo luck!

just like real life , some are some are not
they give themselfs away if you chat with them for a while
i all ways give them enough rope to hang themselfs with and they norm do

Oh yea.. " Widowed ", " Engineer", "Children at home"... 1,000 dead & hospitalized relatives,
That's the story & they are sticking to it... Targeting our age range.
Looking for women who will feel sorry for them or what to take care of there kids & mother

Sexist, scammers. I don't even read the mail. Ck the profile, then block. If you do not,they make the rounds again & 2 weeks -2 months.. there back. * or just keep a list *
Use Google search image & TinEye, follow your instinct & message me once a week.

catholic, widowed with a weird home town and state combo listed? ya I would be suspicious

I'm not widowed but I am a weirdo...

.. just thought I'd save you some time.lol

thank you all I will be more cautious