Topic: How could I improve?
stevo987's photo
Tue 05/12/15 10:06 PM
Hey guys, take a look at my profile and let me know how I can improve. I'm not getting any attention lol :(

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Sun 05/24/15 09:26 AM
Nice profile, good luck!

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 05/24/15 09:38 AM

Hey guys, take a look at my profile and let me know how I can improve. I'm not getting any attention lol :(

Ok I think you are serious about asking so I am going to answer seriously okay not meant to be hurtful but constructive...

Post more than one picture.. Show one full length body shot.
You have some wonderful interests... Expand on them

I see you tell me you are an easy going and caring guy..
Tell me how.. Paint me a picture of who you are.. When in doubt start reading a few mens profiles they can't see you look.Then write a bit about what you are really looking for.

Hope this helps a bit... When all done come back in there and we will go from there.
have a great day


metalwing's photo
Sun 05/24/15 09:56 AM
Dude, nighthugs should not be the first thing on your interests and probably shouldn't be there at all. Broaden your audience.

Join the forums and make friends. Interaction will get you further here than anything you put in your profile.

Good Luck!

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 05/24/15 10:01 AM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Sun 05/24/15 10:23 AM
It seems cruel to say why you are not getting a response since you come off as a very sensitive/submissive person and genuinely not getting how that kind of limits the field for you.

If the vibe of your profile is accurate I would say just be patient and let nature take it's course. While the number of women who will be attracted will be smaller at least the lid will find the pot eventually.

Profiles are usually a matter of implications so you want to look what applies to you and present it in the best light.

Some things are generally taboo.

While it looks like it is high fashion on TV or media to have a little scuff on the face the majority of women loath it. You may not be clean shaven every day but at least put your best foot forward in your lead photo.

You can be shy and survive but a smile is also essential. I can't tell by the blank look on your face if you are afraid, bored, stoned, or stupid. If you are here to greet a potential date you have to man up and smile like you want to make contact with a woman.

I don't have a clue what kind of work you do or if you make a living at it or just pocket money but generally saying at your age that you work for "Daddy" is a big downer. Most women your peer age expect you to be independent or at least a partner in a family business.

You mention a few interests but most of them sound like something you would share with your brother's so not a real high drawing card for inspiring a date. It might sound manly to you but it suggest terminal bachelor to women. Or some guy who is looking for freebee grab and grope when you are talking about sexual contact right out of the box.

While caring and not being real aggressive can be nice qualities you probably don't want it to sound too soft or the women will think all you want to do is be their friend and never be assertive enough to ask for a date much less plan one and pay for it.

So all in all think about the nuances of your words and make the profile real estate say what is going to promote you in and accurate and flattering light. Good luck.

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Sun 05/24/15 10:12 AM
Except for nighthugs (too much room for interpretation:wink:), I like your profile!...Your picture is very natural and you have kind eyes...For me, you said enough to make me "want to know more" and what you do say sounds honest and sincere...If you are making first contact and not getting a response, maybe rethink that...If you're waiting for the ladies to contact you, stop waiting and take the initiative ...Good luck!!flowerforyou