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Topic: You have to lie to women
salsaforlove Joined Thu 03/17/11 Posts: 58	Tue 04/28/15 03:54 PM
It's better to go to a casual dating site if your looking for sex with no strings attached. Telling her it's only for the sex should be enough for her to hate you.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48959	Tue 04/28/15 04:50 PM
That would never happen, any woman who would date you would first discuss her hourly rates. Finally Estelle says something that I agree with.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 04/28/15 04:59 PM
I don't want to lie to them. I hate lying. But I have to otherwise they won't give it to me. We are told to simply be ourselves. Yeah right hahaha. As much as I'd love to, I know it would back fire. For exampl, imagine if I told a woman I was out on a date with that I only want her for sex, nothing more. What do you think would happen? well depends on what she wants...if it's just sex also.... ... that could be the start a wunnferful sumpin or other

red6mist Joined Sat 08/31/13 Posts: 948	Tue 04/28/15 05:17 PM
I tried the casual sites and it was a complete waste of time and money. There's hardly any women on those kinds of sites. And the few that are tend to have lots of baggage. Some of them even had the ordacity to tell me off for being too direct. They expect guys to message them for weeks and months before hooking up.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48959	Tue 04/28/15 05:19 PM
Me thinks that Misty needs to stick with the blow-up doll that took his virginity.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 04/28/15 05:48 PM
oh poor Misty. Won't somebody please give it up to him so he'll stop complaining

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48959	Tue 04/28/15 05:51 PM
oh poor Misty. Won't somebody please give it up to him so he'll stop complaining sweetestgirl11, are you asking a woman here to help Misty lose his virginity to a real person instead of to a blow-up doll?

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 04/28/15 05:54 PM
oh poor Misty. Won't somebody please give it up to him so he'll stop complaining sweetestgirl11, are you asking a woman here to help Misty lose his virginity to a real person instead of to a blow-up doll? just tryna be helpful. Why? Which do you think he'd prefer?

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 04/28/15 05:54 PM
oh poor Misty. Won't somebody please give it up to him so he'll stop complaining sweetestgirl11, are you asking a woman here to help Misty lose his virginity to a real person instead of to a blow-up doll? just tryna be helpful. Why? Which do you think he'd prefer?

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Tue 04/28/15 05:57 PM
oh poor Misty. Won't somebody please give it up to him so he'll stop complaining sweetestgirl11, are you asking a woman here to help Misty lose his virginity to a real person instead of to a blow-up doll? just tryna be helpful. Why? Which do you think he'd prefer? Why don't you ask him? Sympathy is what he needs....from you.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Tue 04/28/15 06:04 PM
Wanting a woman only for sex is not dating. So what happens if we add house keeping and cooking?

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Tue 04/28/15 06:09 PM
If you are going to use women for sex. It will come back on you when you want a nice girl. She will think twice. Remember there are things out there that are not good for your health. I told my kids you can die from sex eg aids. Don't worry they got the whole truth eventually. Lol

IgorFrankensteen Joined Thu 10/01/09 Posts: 5444	Tue 04/28/15 06:16 PM
Actually, there are always people who want what you want. Some of them are even women. The problem most people have, who complain the way that the OP does, isn't that they can't be honest. It's that they can't be honest with the particular women they are attracted to. And by the way, OP: there's no such thing as hating to lie, and doing it anyway. If you actually hated to lie, you'd hate the results from it as well. Since you don't it means you are lying about hating to lie. You LIKE to lie, because it works for you, or at least your think it does. Anyway, I imagine this is over your head. Anyone who hasn't gotten past this basic level of reasoning by the age of 34 (allegedly) isn't going to learn anything from a forum discussion either.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 04/28/15 07:24 PM
oh poor Misty. Won't somebody please give it up to him so he'll stop complaining sweetestgirl11, are you asking a woman here to help Misty lose his virginity to a real person instead of to a blow-up doll? just tryna be helpful. Why? Which do you think he'd prefer? Why don't you ask him? Sympathy is what he needs....from you. fortunately I don;t think I'm his type. he is far to manly and sophisticated for lil ole me I can still symapthize tho....that's what friends are for lol

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Tue 04/28/15 07:31 PM
oh poor Misty. Won't somebody please give it up to him so he'll stop complaining sweetestgirl11, are you asking a woman here to help Misty lose his virginity to a real person instead of to a blow-up doll? just tryna be helpful. Why? Which do you think he'd prefer? Why don't you ask him? Sympathy is what he needs....from you. fortunately I don;t think I'm his type. he is far to manly and sophisticated for lil ole me I can still symapthize tho....that's what friends are for lol I already figured you were friends with Estelle too.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Tue 04/28/15 10:09 PM
Wanting a woman only for sex is not dating. So what happens if we add house keeping and cooking? .....

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Tue 04/28/15 10:10 PM
Me thinks that Misty needs to stick with the blow-up doll that took his virginity.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Tue 04/28/15 10:31 PM
I don't want to lie to them. I hate lying. But I have to otherwise they won't give it to me. We are told to simply be ourselves. Yeah right hahaha. As much as I'd love to, I know it would back fire. For exampl, imagine if I told a woman I was out on a date with that I only want her for sex, nothing more. What do you think would happen? if she said yes you'd run the other way because that's just a little too easy

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Tue 04/28/15 10:33 PM
I tried the casual sites and it was a complete waste of time and money. There's hardly any women on those kinds of sites. And the few that are tend to have lots of baggage. Some of them even had the ordacity to tell me off for being too direct. They expect guys to message them for weeks and months before hooking up. I know exactly what you need.... It's called a prostitute...

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Tue 04/28/15 10:45 PM
I tried the casual sites and it was a complete waste of time and money. There's hardly any women on those kinds of sites. And the few that are tend to have lots of baggage. Some of them even had the ordacity to tell me off for being too direct. They expect guys to message them for weeks and months before hooking up. I know exactly what you need.... It's called a prostitute... "Exchange ain't know robbery"!