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Okay, I got your point.
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I wish you all the best in your search though!
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Have never had a man say that to Me .. but if i said that to a man .. It would definitely be a kiss off . Sometimes men just want what they can get and nothing more . Keep looking .. Your Romeo will show up and give you his heart  
.lol.. seriously you really do..lol.. I just wish you to be happy..lol.. . ok now you can never say no one has never said that to you..lmao 
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Edited by
Pansytilly
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Mon 04/27/15 09:04 PM
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Oh shucks, little ol' me. Can you help me with opening this can of soup, baby? *giggles* Your arms are soooo big and you're so strong. Have you been working out? Oh my! *giggle gurgle coo* Baby, can you help me change the oil in my car? What would I do without you? *big smile* Sweetie pie, can you help me balance my checkbook? I am soooo bad at math. *twirls hair around fingers, snaps bubblegum* Oh my gosh, darling, you're the best boyfriend in the whole wide world!!!
Lol...i predict...its not gonna be your hair that gets twirled around your fingers... 
It's going to take a special kind of man to handle and truly appreciate someone like you...  best wishes!
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It can be a sincere appreciation not necessarily a kiss off
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It can be a sincere appreciation not necessarily a kiss off Really? Hope springing in my breasts, urmmm, breast. Do elaborate please. |
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Edited by
Valeris
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Wed 04/29/15 06:50 PM
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Statement: "you deserve better than me."
* Reponse: " Could you try to explain as to why you think or feel that way? I'm only asking because I like the feeling that I have when we chat, hang-out,ect. * Hmmmm, I have gotten this response & most certainly it was not meant as a "kiss-off"! Sometimes, in every new connection of emotional importance; both people experience initial feelings of insecurity. If who you are, so impresses another individual so much so, then they may experience a feeling of being overwhelmed & perhaps, a bit afraid. They question themselves[according to gender-specifics [i.e.am I-financially successful, lifestyle, appearance,ect] as to why or how[such a wonderful/beautiful/talented/intelligent ,ect.] individual could have selected someone as ordinary, common,ect.[********] such as themselves? Perhaps, they feel that you could be defined as something- "out-of-their league", who knows? It's called normal, human insecurity[they don't realize that you might feel the same kind of fear & insecurity in terms of what they feel about you]. I don't think its abnormal or a serious issue that gentle, direct, & honest communication can't rectify. Everyone needs "Reassurance" that it's OK & it's a real communication hurdle if both individuals can find a comfortable, safe way to express their needs to each other. Builds that thing-called: trust;} 
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I take it as a good sign that they are trying to share the normal insecurities everyone feels in life sometimes. Especially if they value what you bring to the relationship and would feel pain if you picked someone that had more to offer. Sometimes it is just and excuse or manipulation but sometimes it is a desire to hear from you how they do fulfill your needs or could do better. My late husband used to say he did not deserve the incredible happiness he felt having the chance to step in and be a part of my family with my sons and I just reminded him that he was doing such a wonderful job that I felt like there was no other person on earth that could make me as happy as he was.
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