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Topic: Where are You?
FireandIce54's photo
Wed 04/22/15 01:03 PM
why is it so hard to meet a good, honest woman. Many of them post pictures of themselves taken 20 years ago and they don't even look close to that now. No matter how you look at it this is deception. At least I have the courage to post my current photo. I'm an honest, loving and caring man and all I'm looking for is one good hearted, honest, caring woman. HELLO.... ARE YOU OUT THERE?

no photo
Wed 04/22/15 01:07 PM
why is it so hard to meet a good, honest man? Many of them post pictures of themselves taken 20 years ago and they don't even look close to that now. No matter how you look at it this is deception. At least I have the courage to post my current photo. I'm an honest, loving and caring woman and all I'm looking for is one good hearted, honest, caring man. HELLO.... ARE YOU OUT THERE?

bashajones's photo
Wed 04/22/15 01:11 PM

why is it so hard to meet a good, honest woman. Many of them post pictures of themselves taken 20 years ago and they don't even look close to that now. No matter how you look at it this is deception. At least I have the courage to post my current photo. I'm an honest, loving and caring man and all I'm looking for is one good hearted, honest, caring woman. HELLO.... ARE YOU OUT THERE?



Uh. That's asking a bit much, don't you think?...laugh

no photo
Wed 04/22/15 01:12 PM
Edited by WonderWoman48 on Wed 04/22/15 01:20 PM
why is it so DAMN hard to meet a good, honest man? Many of them post pictures of themselves taken 20 years ago and they don't even look close to that now. No matter how you look at it this is deception. At least I have the courage to post my current photo. I'm an honest, loving and caring woman and all I'm looking for is one good hearted, honest, caring man. HELLO.... ARE YOU OUT THERE?frustrated

no photo
Wed 04/22/15 01:13 PM
It makes me motion sick to turn my head sideways while viewing profiles like yours.

Sorry.

<~~~~~~~~~~This GOOD woman is leaving the thread.

FireandIce54's photo
Wed 04/22/15 01:20 PM
bigsmile Not really...people should be honest with themselves as well as others. I could not win a blue ribbon for my looks. But I am the best friend anyone could ever ask for. P.S. if I call a person a friend they earned that honor.

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 04/22/15 01:21 PM
OH boy... Dear OP.. that seems to be pissy that someone gave you fake pictures. Do you think that is only women do that.. NOPE..
I have seen more MEN pictures that are fake.. Really...

I love the answer I got years ago when I met a guy on a meet and greet. I had no clue who this dirty old man that was wanting to shake my hand.. When I asked WTH..

His response a woman of your age should be happy for anythingfrustrated frustrated

So really there are fakes, scammers of both sexes...
deal with it
that is why out here it is
buyer beware...

now grabbing popcorn

no photo
Wed 04/22/15 01:24 PM
Edited by tealbreeze on Wed 04/22/15 01:27 PM

OH boy... Dear OP.. that seems to be pissy that someone gave you fake pictures. Do you think that is only women do that.. NOPE..
I have seen more MEN pictures that are fake.. Really...

I love the answer I got years ago when I met a guy on a meet and greet. I had no clue who this dirty old man that was wanting to shake my hand.. When I asked WTH..

His response a woman of your age should be happy for anythingfrustrated frustrated

So really there are fakes, scammers of both sexes...
deal with it
that is why out here it is
buyer beware...

now grabbing popcorn


I thought you stated that you only had great meets from online dating? huh :angel:

I had a guy do the same thing practically.

When I asked to see his drivers license he then held his thumb over the DOB and I had to wrench it out of his hand to read it. He lied about his age and being married also.

FireandIce54's photo
Wed 04/22/15 01:29 PM
happy Thanks for the advice. At least I know I stirred up a hornets nest. I know men lie too, I guess people have a problem growing older and losing their looks. I'm not vain nor have I ever had a problem with vanity... but then again I'm not the norm.

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 04/22/15 01:29 PM


OH boy... Dear OP.. that seems to be pissy that someone gave you fake pictures. Do you think that is only women do that.. NOPE..
I have seen more MEN pictures that are fake.. Really...

I love the answer I got years ago when I met a guy on a meet and greet. I had no clue who this dirty old man that was wanting to shake my hand.. When I asked WTH..

His response a woman of your age should be happy for anythingfrustrated frustrated

So really there are fakes, scammers of both sexes...
deal with it
that is why out here it is
buyer beware...

now grabbing popcorn


I thought you stated that you only had great meets from online dating? huh :angel:

I had a guy do the same thing practically.

When I asked to see his drivers license he then held his thumb over the DOB and I had to wrench it out of his hand to read it. He lied about his age and being married also.


It was a great meet... He had a friend with him.. Yummmm:angel:

Wow I am so special there is someone that pays attention to my post I can die happy now..


OP... IN all honesty I am sorry you had this happen to you.. I hope you DO find what you are looking forflowerforyou

FireandIce54's photo
Wed 04/22/15 01:40 PM
:smile: Thanks...I hope life is good to you and you find great joy.

Goofball73's photo
Wed 04/22/15 02:09 PM

why is it so hard to meet a good, honest woman. Many of them post pictures of themselves taken 20 years ago and they don't even look close to that now. No matter how you look at it this is deception. At least I have the courage to post my current photo. I'm an honest, loving and caring man and all I'm looking for is one good hearted, honest, caring woman. HELLO.... ARE YOU OUT THERE?


Dude....your photo is sideways. Chicks don't be tilting their computer to get a good look at ya. laugh

TyphoonMk1b's photo
Wed 04/22/15 02:53 PM
Edited by TyphoonMk1b on Wed 04/22/15 02:54 PM

why is it so hard to meet a good, honest woman. Many of them post pictures of themselves taken 20 years ago and they don't even look close to that now. No matter how you look at it this is deception. At least I have the courage to post my current photo. I'm an honest, loving and caring man and all I'm looking for is one good hearted, honest, caring woman. HELLO.... ARE YOU OUT THERE?


okay, so if i take you word for it, i might possibly, potentially think of the following reasons:

-they are not good
-or not honest

as you describe the picture situation, i would say the "honest" part is confirmed by what you see.

You see a current photo as courage? Then they must not have courage. Or not be Honest. maybe both even.

So the solution is this:
Ignore the photo.
suppose them to be dishonest and have no courage


and then , just like that, you will ask yourself "WTF am i doing here?!!"


no1phD's photo
Wed 04/22/15 03:00 PM
right now I'm sitting at my kitchen island waiting for the coffee water to boil....ok..

FireandIce54's photo
Wed 04/22/15 03:02 PM
I find that a deception such as the photo is a little indication of what else I have to look forward to. If a person puts themselves out there... yes they may get ridiculed by some; but I respect them for doing so and believe they are the better for it. The others are not only lying to me but themselves.

FireandIce54's photo
Wed 04/22/15 03:03 PM
cute dog!!!

FireandIce54's photo
Wed 04/22/15 03:04 PM
cute dog!!

no1phD's photo
Wed 04/22/15 03:05 PM
Milo says.. Thanks.. the picture is 6 months old though..lol

no1phD's photo
Wed 04/22/15 03:06 PM
he's gone bald and put on a lot of weight since then..lol..jk

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 04/22/15 03:06 PM

right now I'm sitting at my kitchen island waiting for the coffee water to boil....ok..

Dang I hope that isn't the same cuppa for hours ago ...long time to wait for a cuppa of coffee...

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