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| Topic: Break up topic. Serious subject no jokes. Need advice | |
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IamWhoIam stated >>>
Kindlightheart stated >>> true that...Easy: STOP CONTACTING HER. Out of sight, out of mind. This is also stated in many relationship help articles. As long as she continues to stay in your life, she will torment your heart and your thoughts. A breakup is like death. You go through a mourning period and then you move on. If she continues to stay in your life, you cannot mourn the breakup properly and she will haunt you. That is why it has taken you so many years to move on. You won't allow your heart to heal from the pain. You keep re-opening the wounds every time you talk to her and she stays in your heart and mind.  Yipper...your picking at that broken heart like a scab that you won't let heal when you just keep reaching out and calling each other...especially when you can't/aren't able to move on! Geeze she must be eating that up and you just keep providing her with the POWER - STOP IT. Relocate and find green pastures - new hobbies - broaden your horizons; it's a shame that she couldn't/didn't want to manage a long distant relationship while you worked away but it appears that you would have come up on the short end of that stick either way! Cut bait and move on! 4 years - WOW...that's a lot of wasted energy, young man! |
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Oh Oh ewwww.
Scab picker. Best visual of the day. 
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Yeah but the deactivation is sometimes temporary. Then they come back. And it's a good topic for the rest of us to learn from. 24+ hours. He is still deactivated & we are still learning. 
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Edited by
TyphoonMk1b
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Mon 04/20/15 05:41 PM
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my ex gf broke up with me back in 2011. Her reason was, b/c I had to leave to a different State to save up money. She did not want me to go, but I had to. When I got back to my home State she did not want to get back together. why would she? you left her. You could have found a way to stay. It hurts...
your own choice. you left. ...b/c we talk on a regular basis.
your choice. you could stop We have talked for four years now and it seems like we will never get back together.
you left her, forgot? I just do not know how to get her off my mind when I try to meet new women to date.
get that woman out of your head and out of your phone. I know I have to move on, but it is rough! I want to stop talking to her all together, I just do not know how to get her off my mind.
Xhamster is one solution among many. and solitude. and talking to friends. and Gym. and work. and accomplishing something for yourself ...all these things multiplied by time. mingle... is not. get over your past before bothring your future date with it. do not live for the past, do not live for the past P***y. ...that YOU LEFT. Only girls that want to date me are to young, and I cannot find a good woman with a head on her shoulders.
you do not have your head on your shoulders yourself. It is so hard to focus in school, and any activity I take serious.
go through school first. stop thinking with your small head, learn to exercize the big one first. It is just mind blowing how a girl got my mind like this.
she was your first. you never forget that one. learn from it. never let that happen again. and if you find a good one among the bad ones, stick around and do not leave her, only to complain afterwards. and if you leave her, be PREPARED to leave her. |
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