Topic: Leading someone on.
stjustine's photo
Tue 04/14/15 04:15 PM
Why do some women lead men on telling them after talking for a while that they are dying to meet.But then surprise we can't meet for whatever reason.Do these women realize what this doe's to a mans emotions.Its not fair ladies.I have been thru this many times.I'm almost ready to give up.mad ohwell

no photo
Tue 04/14/15 04:31 PM
A lot of men lead me on. They only say things that they think I want to hear.

TMommy's photo
Tue 04/14/15 04:37 PM
Edited by TMommy on Tue 04/14/15 04:45 PM
in all fairness I can but wadger a guess
1. she is in a relationship or dating someone already
2. she has work/family obligations so that time/place will not work
3. she is a dating site junkie and gets off on attention
4. she really liked talking to you but maybe feels pressured and was not quite ready so chickened out

MariahsFantasy's photo
Tue 04/14/15 04:37 PM
Leading women on tends to be expected...if a guy is genuinely interested, it's kind of rare when he voices this to a woman.

Amelinng's photo
Tue 04/14/15 04:50 PM
Sorry that things aren't going well and you have been led a merry-go-round!

Give yourself a little more time, it wasn't meant to be this time round. If you had met, and you liked her and she didn't, it would be even worse to bear. So, just count this as a little blessing. It may sound 'harsh' but this is a reality of virtual dating. And it's not only the ladies who haven't being fair, some men haven't been fair either.

Hope you get to meet the one who was meant to be ..... good luck in your search!flowerforyou




mysticalview21's photo
Tue 04/14/15 05:00 PM
I think Tmommy left something out a scammer ...a troll no I am not negative at all lol I would give it time Op... could be distance ... and was not their real site ... or just not that into you after having conversation ... If you did not get a answer from her your more then likely better off ... see I can be positive laugh ...

2469nascar's photo
Tue 04/14/15 05:13 PM

3. she is a dating site junkie and gets off on attention
!!!!!!
I like that one,,^^^^^ It gets to the point were i dont even reply to my mail half the time,,

TMommy's photo
Tue 04/14/15 05:25 PM


3. she is a dating site junkie and gets off on attention
!!!!!!
I like that one,,^^^^^ It gets to the point were i dont even reply to my mail half the time,,



usually they are easy to pick out..I can usually spot them within one or two exchanges

1. If the intro they give you is about a paragraph long and reads like something they wrote ahead of time and send out in mass quantities
2. they do not remember your name or anything you spoke about in the last conversation.
3. they take an incredibly long time in responding and then when they do it's something flippant and meaningless
4. they are in a big hurry to go offsite and skype, email or text

no photo
Tue 04/14/15 05:45 PM


3. she is a dating site junkie and gets off on attention
!!!!!!
I like that one,,^^^^^ It gets to the point were i dont even reply to my mail half the time,,


this ^^^

no1phD's photo
Tue 04/14/15 07:25 PM
I need a fix shoot it directly into my tongue no better yet into my fingertips lol

bashajones's photo
Tue 04/14/15 07:34 PM

Why do some women lead men on telling them after talking for a while that they are dying to meet.But then surprise we can't meet for whatever reason.Do these women realize what this doe's to a mans emotions.Its not fair ladies.I have been thru this many times.I'm almost ready to give up.mad ohwell


Why do some men take everything SO seriously?...

seahawks's photo
Tue 04/14/15 07:45 PM
I hate it when they tell ya yur the biggest and the best just b4 payday.laugh laugh :wink:

TMommy's photo
Tue 04/14/15 08:00 PM

I hate it when they tell ya yur the biggest and the best just b4 payday.laugh laugh :wink:
must of been the king size one of these

no1phD's photo
Tue 04/14/15 08:26 PM
I did not lead them on..no.. i lead them down the garden path.. turn them on end.. get them lost within themselves..mm... not knowing which way is up which way is down.... and then I give them a little slap on their bum.. and send them on their way..:angel: ... only to have them come back to play another day....pitchfork

Spike1964's photo
Wed 04/15/15 02:21 AM

I hate it when they tell ya yur the biggest and the best just b4 payday.laugh laugh :wink:


Lol payday love can't beat it.