Topic: My most humble apologies
TMommy's photo
Tue 04/14/15 09:35 AM
see? good group of peops here:thumbsup:

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Tue 04/14/15 09:38 AM

see? good group of peops here:thumbsup:


Hey, that's discrimination. My mustache is fine. :tongue: laugh

needsum12luv's photo
Tue 04/14/15 09:42 AM

i get the whole "i don't have much time" thing, but you should be getting wiser as you age. live your life bro. do things that make you happy. when you look too hard for something you miss seeing it, because it's usually right before your eyes. then when you occupy yourself doing something else you run across it. enjoy mingling

by the way, that's a cute little starter mustache



lol, believe me, I am very attentive to all aspects of my life and I enjoy the things I like when I can. To know me is to understand my agenda and as my life gets very busy from May to December, My time is very restricted in finding a partner so there is a sense of urgency in doing what I need to do to sort through many "possibles" that before I even say hi, their is already a reason to pursue the ones that are the remainders of the "possibles". By the way my current mustache is a bit more than two weeks as I had to shave it off to have a cancer removed above my upper lip (still slightly noticeable) but I am thankful to be able to get it back.

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Tue 04/14/15 09:46 AM


i get the whole "i don't have much time" thing, but you should be getting wiser as you age. live your life bro. do things that make you happy. when you look too hard for something you miss seeing it, because it's usually right before your eyes. then when you occupy yourself doing something else you run across it. enjoy mingling

by the way, that's a cute little starter mustache



yummm. I love Paul.love


panchovanilla's photo
Tue 04/14/15 10:30 AM
At one time or another, we all run, jump, trip, stumble, fall, and scrape a knee. And then we realize
getting to the finish line fast, is not important. It's all about the journey. When you meet the one
that gets through the callouses, you'll know it. Because it will scare the bejeesus outta you.
But it will be the sweetest fear you've ever felt.
Good luck, my mustache wielding brother.

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Tue 04/14/15 10:46 AM

At one time or another, we all run, jump, trip, stumble, fall, and scrape a knee. And then we realize
getting to the finish line fast, is not important. It's all about the journey. When you meet the one
that gets through the callouses, you'll know it. Because it will scare the bejeesus outta you.
But it will be the sweetest fear you've ever felt.
Good luck, my mustache wielding brother.


awwwww that was very sweet pancho

and excellent advice :thumbsup:

I know it feels like way more than a scraped knee Needsum but you have to be thankful for just being here and breathing ......... take it easy

smile2

needsum12luv's photo
Tue 04/14/15 10:59 AM

At one time or another, we all run, jump, trip, stumble, fall, and scrape a knee. And then we realize
getting to the finish line fast, is not important. It's all about the journey. When you meet the one
that gets through the callouses, you'll know it. Because it will scare the bejeesus outta you.
But it will be the sweetest fear you've ever felt.
Good luck, my mustache wielding brother.


thanks Panch

needsum12luv's photo
Tue 04/14/15 11:00 AM


At one time or another, we all run, jump, trip, stumble, fall, and scrape a knee. And then we realize
getting to the finish line fast, is not important. It's all about the journey. When you meet the one
that gets through the callouses, you'll know it. Because it will scare the bejeesus outta you.
But it will be the sweetest fear you've ever felt.
Good luck, my mustache wielding brother.


awwwww that was very sweet pancho

and excellent advice :thumbsup:

I know it feels like way more than a scraped knee Needsum but you have to be thankful for just being here and breathing ......... take it easy

smile2


I'm trying, I truly am.

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Tue 04/14/15 11:09 AM
All right, who F-ed with Sven, my Pool Boy? Give me her name! Let me at her!!! mad

Hang in there, S. It happens to everyone. Love is a battlefield. Keep avoiding those minefields. Stay cool. This is what I always say. You need to wade through a lot of muddy waters [actually I am being polite here. More like an outhouse] before you get to that field of daisies. Ok, I feel a poem coming on...

Roses are red
Violets are Blue
Sven looks hot in swim trunks
And you are just sore.

Ok, that didn't really rhyme. I will come back with a better poem later...

2OLD2MESSAROUND's photo
Tue 04/14/15 11:19 AM
Edited by 2OLD2MESSAROUND on Tue 04/14/15 11:19 AM



mustaches are wonderful

on a man that is
on a woman..not so muchbigsmile


I can be in a room with another audio system blaring and if Sam Elliott's voice comes on in the main living room --- WELL, don't get between me and that place!!! OMG...he is 2 DIE 4!
SERIOUSLY blushing

needsum12luv's photo
Tue 04/14/15 01:19 PM

All right, who F-ed with Sven, my Pool Boy? Give me her name! Let me at her!!! mad

Hang in there, S. It happens to everyone. Love is a battlefield. Keep avoiding those minefields. Stay cool. This is what I always say. You need to wade through a lot of muddy waters [actually I am being polite here. More like an outhouse] before you get to that field of daisies. Ok, I feel a poem coming on...

Roses are red
Violets are Blue
Sven looks hot in swim trunks
And you are just sore.

Ok, that didn't really rhyme. I will come back with a better poem later...


Lol, leave to you to make me smile........btw, if you want your job back at the Captain Ozzies Diner we need to clear up that it's 1:45 work and :15 break every 2 hours, not the other way around

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Tue 04/14/15 01:29 PM




Why do you guys worried of your age? If an 84 years old man married to a 44 Year old woman how much more to a youger man? This is true... They just got married last month and yes many different reactions from the people but who cares? Just wait for the right time and dont be rush.smile


easy to say when your 38
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And you look at my age? Well maybe yes because i have still 2 years to wait before 40 hehehe


Of course, as your picture looks young and the young ones always think that you need to take your time and hem haw about proceeding with a relationship. It just doesn't take a lot of time to find out about a person by doing a little research and asking the right questions. I do not fear moving straightforward, and if it is a problem to the one I am pursuing, then I sense there is a fear of a relationship that would hinder moving forward. Hence, I will not waste a bunch of time jumping through hoops or playing games


:smile:

JustScribbles's photo
Tue 04/14/15 01:48 PM
You've got all these folks in your corner. Worth its weight in gold, partner. There are good and caring people in your life NOW. Just scroll back a little. Practice what they've done; move your focus onto others and how you can meet their needs. They've made you feel good, eased the stress some, given you hope, right? If you were to do the same, how different would your life be?

Best of luck and hold your head up, amigo.

needsum12luv's photo
Tue 04/14/15 02:22 PM

You've got all these folks in your corner. Worth its weight in gold, partner. There are good and caring people in your life NOW. Just scroll back a little. Practice what they've done; move your focus onto others and how you can meet their needs. They've made you feel good, eased the stress some, given you hope, right? If you were to do the same, how different would your life be?

Best of luck and hold your head up, amigo.


Damn Scribbles, I just stopped crying. lol You almost got me going again. Yes, Thank you all you beautiful people you. A special thanks to one of you (to remain anonymous) for pulling me out of my grave last night. I believe that was the deepest depression I have ever been in. You let me vent, you actually listened and finally (because I was feelin' sorry for myself and I'm hard headed) help me realize where I truly was and turned me around. I can't say "Thank You" enough.

needsum12luv's photo
Tue 04/14/15 02:40 PM
Thanks to some incredible people, I'm back up and running



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Tue 04/14/15 02:45 PM
:thumbsup: go get'em tiger

mikey5360's photo
Tue 04/14/15 02:52 PM








As I search for that someone, I am often disappointed but that comes with putting forth a true effort to find her. I do move quickly sorting through the profiles to find the probable prospect, as I find someone I will move as slowly as I can bear to but being 62, I really do not have much time to waste. Forgive me my friends for my moment of frailness as I have a foolish and tender heart that has been broken so many times that I no longer guard it as it has calloused over time. It's as if I dare the next woman to break it again, and she most likely will.

Don't worry Needsum12luv, there is a lady for you out there. Just relax and take the time to know yourself and what you want. Then you can find the right one instead of the wrong one. Good luck to you! flowerforyou

Why do you guys worried of your age? If an 84 years old man married to a 44 Year old woman how much more to a youger man? This is true... They just got married last month and yes many different reactions from the people but who cares? Just wait for the right time and dont be rush.smile

I know too well what I want. I sort through literally 100's of profiles and only a selected few are persued, but even in the select few are even fewer that want to be challenged with questions and efforts of moving forward in a relationship. I will not beat around the bush, as my interest grows so will my pursuit.

remember this though needsum. the more you make it like work or a project the less you will be able to enjoy it.
so keep telling yourself ...breath relax and try not to force it

I have to agree with this.. no matter what age a person is, life is too short to be in such a hurry to find someone. the right person I honestly believe will come along for each and everyone...
No apologies needed as far as I am concerned

At one time or another, we all run, jump, trip, stumble, fall, and scrape a knee. And then we realize
getting to the finish line fast, is not important. It's all about the journey. When you meet the one
that gets through the callouses, you'll know it. Because it will scare the bejeesus outta you.
But it will be the sweetest fear you've ever felt.
Good luck, my mustache wielding brother.

You've got all these folks in your corner. Worth its weight in gold, partner. There are good and caring people in your life NOW. Just scroll back a little. Practice what they've done; move your focus onto others and how you can meet their needs. They've made you feel good, eased the stress some, given you hope, right? If you were to do the same, how different would your life be?
Best of luck and hold your head up, amigo.

Sorry for the multiple quoting frenzy man....but I felt every one these posts or exerts from them were relevant or struck a chord....
I once was at point in my early days here where I felt like that....whats the point...its too hard....I'm too old....nobody will accept me...blah, blah, blah.
I too felt the despair at sending off multiple letters but getting nothing back. But the friendships extended to me from this bunch of crazy, lovable people made me reassess my reasons for being here...

So my big tip is to restructure your profile....you say you have questions....so did I ...
I structured my profile so that some of those questions were posed to the cross section of women I was attracted to....magically, I started to receive a lot of views...and a lot of mail...it was easy to discard the pretenders, they didn't address my questions...but the ones that did, meant that I could stop searching...but the mail kept coming....
So that's it...the rest is history...I found my other half....
So chill out...plenty of time yet...drinker

needsum12luv's photo
Tue 04/14/15 02:55 PM

So my big tip is to restructure your profile....you say you have questions....so did I ...
I structured my profile so that some of those questions were posed to the cross section of women I was attracted to....magically, I started to receive a lot of views...and a lot of mail...it was easy to discard the pretenders, they didn't address my questions...but the ones that did, meant that I could stop searching...but the mail kept coming....
So that's it...the rest is history...I found my other half....
So chill out...plenty of time yet...drinker


Thank you and see above

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Tue 04/14/15 02:56 PM
Edited by esebulldog on Tue 04/14/15 03:23 PM


You've got all these folks in your corner. Worth its weight in gold, partner. There are good and caring people in your life NOW. Just scroll back a little. Practice what they've done; move your focus onto others and how you can meet their needs. They've made you feel good, eased the stress some, given you hope, right? If you were to do the same, how different would your life be?

Best of luck and hold your head up, amigo.


Damn Scribbles, I just stopped crying. lol You almost got me going again. Yes, Thank you all you beautiful people you. A special thanks to one of you (esebulldog) for pulling me out of my grave last night. I believe that was the deepest depression I have ever been in. You let me vent, you actually listened and finally (because I was feelin' sorry for myself and I'm hard headed) help me realize where I truly was and turned me around. I can't say "Thank You" enough.

no problem bro. really, i just put the phone down and went for a bike ride. i got back in time to sing "soft kitty" before you hung up. thanks for not telling everyone
http://youtu.be/ni74dcSOG8M

no1phD's photo
Tue 04/14/15 03:02 PM
at least somebody offered you some kind words...
they just tell me to get back into the corner.. and put my ball gag back in..lol
drinker