I have a hard time finding a man y Is it so hard

Just quit looking:)))
And make some friends.
When it's meant to happen,it will
Welcome.

A) Could be the cigarette your holding in your picture. Not that, that would bother me any. I'm a smoker.

B) You're only separated, which could mean that you're not totally done with your marital relationship to your husband. Some men don't want to waste time with a possible relationship that isn't going to go anywhere.

C) Limited profile information, nothing to really be able to use as a Icebreaker to start a dialogue.

good luck to you!


Edit....for a misspelling

I left my husband 4 yes ago he was abusive not going back and I don't know what to say in the profile I don't talk about myself

Thanks 2kidsmom

sorry to hear about your marriage issues

little confused on why you are not divorced


if you cannot manage to talk about yourself in your profile
then how do you expect to talk to anyone when they message you?

He will not grant me a divorce he fights it and when someone asks me something I can answer but I haven't dated in 10 years so I don't know what ppl want to know

It might be the yellow mustard on the table.

Now, if you had bratwurst and sauer kraut,
you could have had a chance to sweep me off my feet.


Its all about the food.


.... Just sayin'

What interests you, things you enjoy doing, something that could cause a commonality. Music can also be a good approach. Perhaps list a few favorite artists. And keeping it upbeat is a big plus!

Look at all you helpful Minglers

Freaking scary isn't it!!!

Nope, it's nice to see......better than all the arguing

I don't want to come across as being too harsh on you

I was married for twenty years and have only been back on market for the past couple


but darling ya gotta know how to market yourself

take better pics
yes I know the one with the cig is you with your hair done out in public
but honestly? looks like it was taken in a bar

the other one is way too dark
your profile is only a sentence or two in length

you have interests, hobbies, likes, things you do with your boys..
you have an idea of what you would like to find
someone to go out for coffee with, dinner, talk on phone
date

now write it girl

If I was twenty years younger and we lived in the same town, I would date you. That wouldn't be so bad since all I am only looking for is friendship. It looks like that you just joined, so it may take some time. You are easy on the eyes.

Ya..why not, but there some problem

Thanks 2kidsmom I'll try that and it was at a bar when my brother came home from Iraq..

In my experience when you stop looking for
something is when you find it.

Forgot to answer topic. Yes I would date you wanna go catch a live band somewhere, sometime

Dating and marketing.....I so missed this class in business school.

Hey there,

I just quickly looked at your profile. It's good that you took the time to write a little bit about yourself on your profile. You might consider taking a bit more time to write it without necessarily adding more information. It's just not clearly written.

Take this sentence (copy paste) from your profile: i am spertated ttying to get the x to sogn papers i left 4 years ago ummmm

If I didn't read this thread first, I wouldn't know that you were trying to say that you're waiting for your ex to sign the divorce papers. I'm not a grammar police or anything, but I think it would be beneficial (to you) if you took some time and properly write your profile.

You are cute as a button and have a sweet smile. I don't see why a man wouldn't want to date you.

Good luck and welcome to mingle :)