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Topic: Messed up
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Thu 04/02/15 01:33 PM



Just when things were going well in my life & i almost got healed of my past heartache, i was so stupid to start communicating with my ex on facebook & she said a thing or two that left me feeling pretty f**ked up.....
i don't know why some women don't see how much a man sacrificed just to be with them....& by sacrifice I mean giving up your entire life just to be with her....
when I first saw the date of this post,then glimpse the second ,I thought it was an April fools joke lol,but I know what you mean,the whole chit Is a game to half of them,I guess we gata just love them and show the total jerk side,since they all about games and chit lol!ohwell drinker


You're 100% correct there my friend.
Yes it's all a game to many of them.....i've lived on the wildside & been a player, but it never brought me any joy....infact i was more miserable....
there's no better feeling then holding that 1 woman you love each night & looking into her eyes & telling her how much you love her & how much she means to you, & seeing her face every morning & when you get home.....& if you having a bad day all you have to do is look at your special one & it would all be cool ...
i believe maybe just maybe there should be good women out there

Yeah man,definitely,there're some good ones,sometimes it takes a long time to see it though,like those couples that been together for ever,especially if you know them,I've seen couples go through the worst thing imaginable,and came out stronger than ever and still together,that's what they mean when they say,"for better or worse lol!

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Thu 04/02/15 02:00 PM





And then she blocked me....laugh
Partly it could be my fault too coz i was hitting on her cousin at the same time but i'm single so did i do something wrong ?


Seriously, you don't see anything wrong with your statement???whoa



Not really....if my ex does not want me then why is she bothered about who i date?
She said a lot of s h i t about me....false s h i t & her problem is that her cousin will actually see that i am a good loving & caring guy & i don't cheat or get upto any nonsense...other then that it will be a blow to her ego if her cousin &me hit it off

How would you feel if she started dating or flirting with one of your mates?
Some things are just not done, a no-go area, even when you've split up, and particularly when both parties are still not completely over the breakup.

And be honest, why did you hitting on her cousin? Was it cause you really like that woman or was it to spite your ex?
You don't have to tell me, but at least be honest to yourself!
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I started talking to her cousin coz it made me feel closer to my ex in some way, at the time we were not talking & her cuz didn't know about me being involved with her cousin but when she did she thought i'm playing her ohwell sad


Ummm This sounds like playing to me. noway frustrated

Personally I don't think there is anything wrong with dating the cousin if you have truly moved on from the ex and really like her. But dating the cousin to be close to the ex or for any other reason involving the ex makes you a bit of a jerk, most of all to the cousin.

Honesty begins with yourself.
Give it time and then find a lady unrelated in any way to your ex. drinker

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Thu 04/02/15 03:30 PM






And then she blocked me....laugh
Partly it could be my fault too coz i was hitting on her cousin at the same time but i'm single so did i do something wrong ?


Seriously, you don't see anything wrong with your statement???whoa



Not really....if my ex does not want me then why is she bothered about who i date?
She said a lot of s h i t about me....false s h i t & her problem is that her cousin will actually see that i am a good loving & caring guy & i don't cheat or get upto any nonsense...other then that it will be a blow to her ego if her cousin &me hit it off

How would you feel if she started dating or flirting with one of your mates?
Some things are just not done, a no-go area, even when you've split up, and particularly when both parties are still not completely over the breakup.

And be honest, why did you hitting on her cousin? Was it cause you really like that woman or was it to spite your ex?
You don't have to tell me, but at least be honest to yourself!
flowerforyou flowers



I started talking to her cousin coz it made me feel closer to my ex in some way, at the time we were not talking & her cuz didn't know about me being involved with her cousin but when she did she thought i'm playing her ohwell sad


Ummm This sounds like playing to me. noway frustrated

Personally I don't think there is anything wrong with dating the cousin if you have truly moved on from the ex and really like her. But dating the cousin to be close to the ex or for any other reason involving the ex makes you a bit of a jerk, most of all to the cousin.

Honesty begins with yourself.
Give it time and then find a lady unrelated in any way to your ex. drinker




Thats not how it is.....i initially started talking to her to feel closer to my ex but as u got to know her more i realized i was liking her & she's nothing like my ex....i was not hitting on her from the word go ...we been talking a few months then recently i added my ex on fb & her cousin liked one of my photos & thats how it all started

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