Went on a few dates, (4) with Mr. wonderful and had a great time.Chemistry was there in full force. We saw each other twice a week and had a lot in common to the point it was scary.Things was going good until I told him, not having sex with him no time soon.Then he stop calling after that. What the "F", I text wanting to know why, lame reason, we don't have anything in common was his excuse!!! Just don't get some men, when a woman tell you, wait on the sex, is that all you want?????

He's a jerk, and he doesn't deserve you.
Guys like that deserve to be shanked by a monkey.

Well to be honest he might have been your "Mr. Wonderful" you weren't his "Ms. Wonderful. After only seeing him for two weeks why would you even be talking about Sex?

Bottom line you might have thought there was a lot in common he didn't, if you are really torn up about this. My advice is get a pint of ice cream, watch some boo hoo lifetime movies. The next morning go to the gym and sweat it out and say/ Next Please.

Maybe next time wait til they bring the subject up and come back quickly with sure when was the last std testing you had done. When you show the cert. we can talk about it. Or just tell them a bit to soon. I usually go for the shock and awe tactic.

Hang in there the right "Mr. Wonderful" will come along.

but you were planning on having sex right.?..
... maybe milk a few more dinners out of him...
... get him to spend a lot more time with you..
...... get him to take you out to movies and drinks..
.... and then and only after all that..
.... you will give him that holy of all treasures... your sex.



.... and now he thinks to himself..
.. after spending all that time and money getting to know her...
.... connecting with her on all levels..
...... now after all that..
. To just discover she is a dud in the bedroom...... well now I have to try to find a way to let her down easy...
.. without her... saying I was only after sex...

First off, I paid for a few dates, etc and he paid so, that wasn't am issue, just because I won't have sex on the fourth date.Hell still getting to know the guy. I don't spread my legs wide eagle for no man, soon as we met. I made that clear on first date.He stated was okay with it, liar.

At least you found out now before you invested more time