Topic: Did i do something wrong?
Emu59's photo
Tue 03/17/15 02:05 AM
Hey guys! This is probably not the right place to post this question, but i joined mingle a few days ago hoping to make some friends and sent a brief, polite mail to several women living in the same city in Slovakia as me (i'm a student here), and so far have had precisely zero replies! Is this usual or have i gone about things the wrong way??

My profile is very short tbh, and i haven't posted a picture yet, but since no one's apparently viewed it i don't think this can be the reason.

mikey5360's photo
Tue 03/17/15 02:07 AM
We live in a visual world post your pic and then see if you get a result...
Most girls I know would want see what a guy looks like before chatting with him....drinker

no photo
Tue 03/17/15 02:11 AM
Yes posting a picture can have everything to do with a reply. Also listing good interests for mutual conversation. I personaly don't answer posts with no pictures. It may be the people you wrote are just not interested or have not gotten to their e-mails due to life. Don't take it personally. Time and patience. No answer, don't give up, move on to another interest.happy

Kaustuv1's photo
Tue 03/17/15 02:16 AM
Don't bother about the 'profile picture factor' because even if you 'do' upload a photo, it doesn't necessarily prove to anybody out here (excepting yourself) that it's your very own photo. You do get the point I'm hinting at. :smile:

In my opinion, you haven't gone the 'wrong' way. Keep smiling. Stay happy. Keep trying. And most important of all: Simply 'be' what you are; Simply 'be' who you are.. 'Destiny' will decide the rest! :smile:


Keep Shining. You Are Precious!flowerforyou

Emu59's photo
Tue 03/17/15 02:18 AM
Thanks for your replies! I'd like to think i'm a pretty good looking guy tbh, but since i'm primarily looking to make friends i didn't think not posting a picture would be an issue. I'll flesh out my account this evening and maybe i'll have a bit more luck.

Kaustuv1's photo
Tue 03/17/15 02:21 AM
Good Luck To You! drinker

PS: It's good for a person to be 'honest' to others. However, it's far more important for one, to be 'honest' to one's own self! :smile:

Spike1964's photo
Wed 03/25/15 12:21 PM
Need a pic of yourself I ignore anyone who has no pic on their profile.

no photo
Wed 03/25/15 01:37 PM

Hey guys! This is probably not the right place to post this question, but i joined mingle a few days ago hoping to make some friends and sent a brief, polite mail to several women living in the same city in Slovakia as me (i'm a student here), and so far have had precisely zero replies! Is this usual or have i gone about things the wrong way??

My profile is very short tbh, and i haven't posted a picture yet, but since no one's apparently viewed it i don't think this can be the reason.



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