Motevia, I feel with ya....I feel the same way. I have such a low-self esteem from being rejected, that I just give up anymore. Yeah I will go to these sites and post a profile but it will be from women miles away and never anyone near me. Well if she is the one for me, then one day if it is our destiny, then we will come together. But for now, I just sit and wait. I'm not in a big hurry to rush things right now although I am lonely in the sense it has been a long time since I have felt the presence of someone special next to me aside from my daughters.

i guess thats why i never get hit on.. I still carry myself like i have a boyfriend.. but i dont.. so it sucks.. Actually, i had some guy follow me and my friend around the supermarket yesterday just to stare at my butt.. And he works there!! .. lol.. she asked him if thats what he was doing, and he said yes.. Finally people are starting to realize im single again after 2 1/2 yrs with one gy and 1 1/2 yrs with the other..lol

I find that if you stay in your house long enough.....and be a hermit, you will remain single......at least that is my case!!

Thats was a compliment ! He told you that your beautiful. We just talk funny around pretty girls

people who are like that are either insercure or been hurt in the past, some people need reassuring but if that doesnt help tell them to lose the baggage!