The intentions of these men are no good. At least women don't send out hundreds of mails to men seeking to use them as objects without seeking any meaningful relationship. This is disrespectful towards women and you wouldn't last a day in our shoes.

The intentions of these men are no good.

That's because we are way too worm out to send 100's of spam messages a day to would be suitors. By the end of the day, we have no strength to answer them, and we KNOW THIS. lol It would be self defeating for all the multitasking we put into our efforts around the house and outside of the home in career. Let them do the work. Yup.

These men? Does the OP have multiple personalities?

We are tired, most of them don't even know the meaning of tired.

For the most part, it's a painful experience for men. But for women, it's an enjoyable one. Totally unfair! How I would love to have hundreds of messages everyday, all from sexed crazed women wanting to have their way with me. Then women have the ordacity to moan about it, how ungrateful! I'd love to see how they'd like it if the roles were reversed. They wouldn't last a week. Having to send out hundreds of messages, half or which will be ignored anyway, and the rest will be rejections and fizzle out into nothing. Online dating is no place for a real man. We aren't appreciated here.