Hey there I'm new and was wondering how this works I always liked guys but recently over the past 2-3years I have been interested in girls so now I'm wanting to find a girl that will be with me for me nothing else if that will help

Welcome to You Nicole.

You will find a lot of good people here in the forums.

You should read the posts here from the real and genuine people. The tools they give you (search, match, etc.) are far less successful. This is not facebook and I encourage you to be proactive in seeking out your desire.

Whatever your gender identity, I give my best wishes to you in your search for a meaningful connection with a woman. I live in a place where the roles of men and women are evolving. Tomboy or girly does not matter in love.

Be yourself.
Be courageous.
I take you as you are already.
There will be a woman who will too.

bye now...