hey iam so new at this i cant even really fgrasp how many will read this. Well i just bravely broke up with a man with violent problems i didnt tell him just left him at his mothers house 100 miles away he thinks i am coming back to get himi ..But i cant i havent been happy in over a year with him .. he quit work and i have been supporting him and going to school am i wrong to do this i have wondered all week as he is gone . I hope he wont come back here angry and mean but i guess i would have asked for it to tell ya the truth.. ya think? gosh i feel bad and nervous and scared any ideas people ? thinnk i am wrong just tell me.. its ok i can take it..

Ya do what you have to do. If you scared to they have crisis centers? I wish you the best of luck and you are a very strong and brave women for leaving

Keep on running girl... never take the @#$@%
Check out the area for domestic violence help...
Take this seriousely- get help to protect yourself.
Violence is not good- and usually does NOT stop...
I applaud you for getting out of the situation.

Welcome to JSH...

It took you a year to leave him??

im proud of you

Like Jen I too am proud of you. My ex has a drinking problem, i stayed with him for "the kids" thinking he would change. It is a hard decision, but once he started showing signs of violence I took the kids and left. It was and is a hard decision, but no one deserves to live in fear.

IF you are really afraid of him there are different avenues to take. MS Teddy has a great suggestion for domstic violence help centers. They can give you all the advice and support you need.

Stick to your guns...sounds like you made the right decision.

You go girl! I have been there myself, it is a hard decision to make, but when you finally make it stick to it. Don't go back, don't take him back, its time to think about YOU YOU YOU and YOU, not him anymore. He needs to grow up and learn how to be a real man. If feel nervous being alone, or having second thoughts the domestic violence centers can help from getting a restraining order, to getting him help, or just someone for you to talk to.

You may feel down for a while and maybe even lonely without him, but in reality you were that way before, now its time to be happy.

change your locks!!! dont let him back in!