Topic: huh? tying the knot?
Uneeknrare's photo
Fri 10/05/07 03:30 PM
Is anyone interested in Marriage anymore or they just want to serial date ??

eileena9's photo
Fri 10/05/07 03:31 PM
<<<<<<< very much interested in marriage....both of us....blushing love

TheShadow's photo
Fri 10/05/07 03:36 PM
Yeah, there are people that are interested in getting married again. just most that have been married, are taken things slower this time around. the problem with getting married these days.there is a high rate of turn overs if you were to say. people take it as lightly as dating. it's just a signd paper thats all, is what most look at it today.....

mach25's photo
Fri 10/05/07 03:36 PM
marriage sux ass! lmao j/k marriage is great, but it seems divorce nowadays is funner???brokenheart

MPsoldier's photo
Fri 10/05/07 03:39 PM
This is how I feel about marriage... People these days do not take marriage as it used to be taken. People go through marriages now like they go through socks. I have absolutly no desire to get married....

If a woman wants to stay with me the rest of my life, she doesnt have to have a wedding, if my word isnt good enough then what is?

I mean come on.... Marriage is suppost to be for the rest of your life, who actually does that now adays?

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Fri 10/05/07 03:41 PM
lol.. I still believe in marriage,, just for other people!

rozey2680's photo
Fri 10/05/07 03:44 PM
Not too many out there (especially men), but they DO EXIST... I promise!!! I found one! lollaugh

MPsoldier's photo
Fri 10/05/07 03:47 PM
rozey... I just dont want some woman that puts on a good front for the first 3 years, changes and then divorces me and takes everything I have worked hard for.... Get my drift? bigsmile

Its all love rozey... drinker

MrRight2008's photo
Fri 10/05/07 03:49 PM
well, im speaking from a younger standpoint, but i just got out of a somewhat bad marriage. still feeling the effects of it, and lemme tell u, its not pretty. divorce sucks. i dont believe in it, but she broke the vow, i wasnt under the bond of marriage any longer, and i got out before it only got worse. i wasnt gonna put myself thru it anymore.

and yea, maybe im too young to give anyone advice, but if ur gonna marry somebody, please, i beg u all, make sure, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that the person u are going to walk down that isle with, is 100% the right person for you. and please, please, please, (for those of the Christian Faith) always put God in the center of your relationship, put God before your husband or wife even, and God will bless u with the best, and most beautiful marriage ever. because if u dont, things are gonna fall fast, and hard. and u may not be able to recover from it.

i speak from a personal experience. i wasnt 100% sure that she was the one, i started to see funny signs of things, but i figured it was too late to back down at that point, and God was so far from the center of our marriage. i worried about pleasing her before pleasing God, and that's where I went wrong. she wanted me to please God before her, and i thought i was doing so by trying to make her happy with things. but i had it backwards, and now because of that, im 22 years old and divorced. and it sucks. so please, make sure that he/she is the right one for u, and that God is placed in the very center of the marriage. for your sakes, please.

Uneeknrare's photo
Fri 10/05/07 03:54 PM
sighs.... I am sorry..... Mr. Right.....
hang in there!!!

I guess.... I really believe in it..... and I hope one day that I will find that person to grow old with....

Life is so hard.... not easy....

AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!

CATBW56's photo
Fri 10/05/07 03:55 PM
I still very much believe in marriage. When you have the break down in communication, that breads mistrust which further leads to greater problems. Both have to be 100% committed to the marriage to make it work and a good marriage takes a lot of work.flowerforyou

jen36's photo
Fri 10/05/07 03:57 PM
im getting married soon

jen36's photo
Fri 10/05/07 03:57 PM
im getting married soon

eileena9's photo
Fri 10/05/07 04:02 PM
Well speaking for myself and for TheCaptain, marriage is a special and sacred thing to be shared by a couple. It means that we choose to put the other person before anyone else and be bound to that person, with as some of you call it a peice of paper. The paper is just a trophy, but it means something to us. To proclaim our love to the world and to God is what we want to do with marriage.

Yes I have been married before and yes I have taken my time in looking for the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. But being married was the best feeling (when things were going right). And we both are interested in gettng married again.

rozey2680's photo
Fri 10/05/07 04:02 PM
It's your opinion MP, but I hope you can find someone that you will be able to trust, otherwise why be in any relationship at all... you're too young to be so jaded against marriage hon!flowerforyou Quit listening to everyone else's horror stories, you don't have to make them your own... you are the writer of your destiny... take it in your own hands! flowerforyou

redwulfe's photo
Fri 10/05/07 04:07 PM
I'm looking for my best friend first, my significant other second, and then my partner for life. I want marriage but the person has to fulfill all of the stages above first. It is important to not rush it this time I did that once, and it ended horribly.

meemee86's photo
Fri 10/05/07 06:42 PM
I'm interested in marriage.. just not right now.... Definetly not a serial dater. I guess I agree with what redwulfe said. well put redwulfe.

Jess642's photo
Fri 10/05/07 06:43 PM
Geeez I can't even tie my shoes...noway

let alone marry someone...grumble

kojack's photo
Fri 10/05/07 06:48 PM
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