What does it take to get good conversation on here..Everyone say they are looking for a good man or woman..but they base things on looks alone.to maybe missing out on someone good just because of that..looks aren't everything..

So true

True.... looks may not be everything, but right now, with the little that we have to work on here, the profile pics are something that we fall back on. Not much....but still!

So, for that good conversation part.....well, you have just stumbled into it.....its in the forums! Where you get the participation of everyone who cares to contribute....and some of these people are 'wise', 'funny', 'jokers', 'smart-***'..... all the creme de la creme of Minglers! Stay put...and join in!

Oh....and welcome, dear!!!

Your right..so many fake profiles..scammers and everything on here.you don't know what to believe.

I personally rely on the forums, if someone hasn't posted much of anything, i don't bother with them.

sometimes even without profile pictures i'll click on someones profile based on their response to a forum questions/conversation...

mingle in the forums, the successes i've seen here have normally been two people in the forums who eventually take it to messaging then further..