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Topic: The problem with women is...
theseacoast's photo
Sat 02/07/15 03:27 PM

It's just that all women make these broad generalizations about men.


All? spock

theseacoast's photo
Sat 02/07/15 03:35 PM

women should spend way less time talking, and way more on kissing...:tongue:


I�ve kissed my reflection in the mirror - as there is nobody else to kiss. Does it counts? :tongue: rofl

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Sat 02/07/15 04:04 PM


It's just that all women make these broad generalizations about men.


All? spock


See what I did there? Also, it's kinda a play on words with "broad".

Seriously, though, I think that focusing on specific elements of gender inequality in terms of how we can focus our disappointment proliferates misery on both sides of the spectrum. Instead of focusing on what's wrong with men or what's wrong with women, I think that instead we should just figure out what we dislike about ourselves, and in our endeavors to evolve into the best version of ourselves that we can become we will possibly find a host of individuals from both sexes along the way to accompany us in this manic rethinking of ourselves, thus further promoting self-discovery.

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Wed 02/18/15 01:50 PM
I've got a simple philosophy on dating and have yet to have someone prove me wrong. Men are stupid and woman are insane. To quantify that I'll put it this way.

Men have to be stupid to put up with a lot of the BS that the ladies pull on us when we're dating. I had 1 girlfriend in college that got thoroughly pissed at me one night. She wanted to cook dinner and then we were going to go out for a movie and maybe some dancing. I had been in class most of the day and dinner wasn't ready, so she told me to sit down and watch some TV. Well I fell asleep waiting, and she hit me to wake me for dinner. She was pissed that I'd fallen asleep and threw a hissy fit about me being tired and not wanting to spend the evening with her. Didn't make sense then and still doesn't today.

My last girlfriend had one of her friends over and her car broke down. She volunteered me to fix it, and the whole time I was working on it she was pissed because I was showing her friend some attention.

Neither one of these situations should've caused an issue but they did for some stupid reason.

I must've been stupid to put up with this type of insanity but love does cause strange behavior. I'm pretty much a straight forward guy and will tell you what I'm doing, or going to do, and expect you to understand that. I also like helping others and if that makes you jealous then something must be wrong with you.

In my case, I told my ex I was going to go to the races at the track one night and wanted her to come with me. She didn't want to go but said she was fine with me going. I lived in Fort Worth at the time and was going to Waco for the races. I just got to the exit on I-35 when my cell rings, and she was upset because I was in Waco, even though she had told me she didn't have a problem with it. I called my friends and told them I wasn't going to make it and turned around to go home to keep her happy. I've always tried to keep a balance with my girlfriends but for some reason that one I couldn't figure her out, and we dated for well over 6 years.

The 2 sexes do see things differently but finding a mutual understanding, that we may be different, but we can work together to make a solid relationship where we both benefit and compliment each other. I do my best to help my other half if she asks, and sometimes when she doesn't. I do miss having someone there I can talk to as well as the other things a relationship has to offer, and that's why I'm still looking for the right lady.

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Wed 02/18/15 03:42 PM

To be fair we need to discuss the problems with women because we are far from perfect! So, what are the things that you think many women have got wrong as they pertain to dating and relationships since that is our main focus?




They are obsessed with media which constantly tells them that they are not beautiful unless they buy this or that. They give in and begin to believe the lies, even if they don't buy the products which determine what is and what is not beautiful. This causes them to want to change the things about them that really are beautiful to conform to this false image of beauty, which turns into shadow chasing. They refuse to accept their true beauty no matter what anyone else does or says, except of course for the companies which define their beauty by the products they buy.

They are also obsessed with crime shows which cause them to be overly cautious.

Reality shows seem to be another obsession of many, but not all women.

Those are really the only issues I've experienced with the majority of the women in my life.

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