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Topic: When women ask you ....
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Thu 01/29/15 06:26 AM


why don;t people just be themselves. we can't appeal to everyone. just be as forward or shy as you really are and you will find someone who likes that kind of person.

No one really appreciates finding out that someone is totally different than how they initially present themselves.

Ya u are living in a fantasy world


why would you say that when you don't really know anything about me, and it does not answer the question i posed?

I find I am a lot more successful, ultimately, when I lose any sort of pretentions.

...but anyway, thanks for the warning ...lol:tongue: :wink: laugh

Floridalove216's photo
Thu 01/29/15 09:08 AM
If she's up for why not go for it? I feel women in this category often leave chattered, used and heartbroken. I have got a thing for woman that really knows what she wants and she damn patient to wait for it.

mysticalview21's photo
Thu 01/29/15 10:00 AM

I have never been shy when someone catches my eye. I will wait for their interest to begin and then let them know I am interested. Is a woman who knows what she wants appealing or scary? Do other women do this?



do I wait ... no... I will let them know somehow ... but if there is no interested toward me then after a while I move on ... being older I don't feel the need to break up a marriage or a relationship... they may be in ... or become a stalker ... non of that is appealing to me ...

livingsingle15's photo
Thu 01/29/15 11:35 AM
Never hurts for either male or female to show interest in another, but if you're in a relationship you need to be upfront about it, because the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Ask my first ex, that cheated on me and thought the grass was greener. She now lives in a one bedroom apartment along side of section 8 folks. Her choice.

Ladywind7's photo
Thu 01/29/15 01:31 PM






I think most men like that when a woman makes the 1st move.kinda sexy.JMO



when women do that it makes me happy bigsmile
I KNOW WHAT YOU MEEN. KINDA HOT WHEN A WOMAN ASK A MAN OUT FIRSTdrool
Aye, but the question at the back of my mind also would be, just HOW many guys has she approached this way? Two sides to a coin, that's all i'm saying?


Now thats when you Minglers of the same sex should befriend each other, so you can name and shame the players.
Just a thought....do women wonder how many other women this guy has asked? Or does she feel chosen and special?
Or does she/he be in the moment?



Somehow neither of that. I�ll never think of how many women he asked out, never think about how many women he slept with, past is past and I�don�t care about it unless it has some influence on today. A new blanc sheet of paper.
Do I feel chosen and special? No. I�feel chosen and special by time after he really shows me I�m chosen and special for him. At first moment, I�m just curious.
But the third question I didn�t get what you ment by that ((Ladywind))

Being in the moment --- Not over analyzing it and going with the here and now moment.
I hope that helps ((Seacoast))

Goofball73's photo
Thu 01/29/15 02:33 PM

I have never been shy when someone catches my eye. I will wait for their interest to begin and then let them know I am interested. Is a woman who knows what she wants appealing or scary? Do other women do this?


Honestly.....this is the biggest turn on for me. Especially if I am interested in her and she beats me to the punch. :wink:

tamitateo's photo
Thu 01/29/15 02:39 PM


I have never been shy when someone catches my eye. I will wait for their interest to begin and then let them know I am interested. Is a woman who knows what she wants appealing or scary? Do other women do this?


Honestly.....this is the biggest turn on for me. Especially if I am interested in her and she beats me to the punch. :wink:

Now I just want to smack you upside the head and say "Snap out of it!"
slaphead

davidben1's photo
Thu 01/29/15 06:27 PM
duh...

cannibals know what they want...

and none cannibals know what they want...

the only scary are those who try to change them self to be desired and liked by others.


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