For those of you that are under 30 I'd suggest that you look at your values and see if someone older than you might be worth looking at. I know that there's more than a few of you looking for a serious relationship, and all you find is horndogs or nymphos. I know you are looking for that "special person", but if you don't want to take your time to know more about them, then you end up with something quick that will fall apart sooner than expected, and then there's child support, courts, and a whole bunch of crap that you didn't expect to deal with. Find out about the person you are interested in and make sure they're wanting you for the same reason you want them. If they just want someone to support them or get out of their parents house, run, don't walk. If they want kids, do they want them because they want to have a legacy to leave behind, or just to prove something. Are they tender when you get together or are they more interested in what they can get from you.

This is just the ramblings from a guy that's been there, done that, and burned the T shirt more times than I'd like to admit.

Good luck man....I believe there is some one for everyone here, it just depends on how far you are willing to search....
ohh dont worry about being slammed, most people here are very welcoming no matter what...well there are some exceptions but not many haha