Now in this post I am not trying to complain or start a pity blog. Just have been wondering why it is harder for me to find a stable relationship since I am now disabled. I'm mostly happy with the direction my life has taken. I have a couple regrets relating to missed chances in the past. But I laugh at it when I look back on it. Anyway there it is. Have lots of luck in your search everyone!

What disability is that if you dont mind me asking?

it is not just you op some do not want to take a chance with someone with a disability becouse it is a little more complicated then they want ... when their are plenty that are not... kinda like ...oh u have children yes... well i wont to meat someone and have my own family someday ... thats just a example ... and you can not fault them for that ... same as taking on the complication you might have with someone that is disable... make sense ...not just you ... good luck there is always someone ... who will love you for you ...

If it makes you feel better; when I was laid off from my job; men would not date me either. Bottom line that most men and women will not date someone who is not employed.

Jason, I just finished reading your profile...It's very nice by the way ...You seem like a guy who has remained positive and proactive in spite of some difficult issues...If you remain that way, I'm thinking life will take you exactly where you are meant to go...

Nice words Leigh

Thanks Anote!