hello

Hello....
And your dating observations are? You go first

^^^
he is very knowledgeable about many things.
I've never had a boring date with him.

welcome to the forums...

dating can have it's issue's...

i am not one to have issues with it, so shall recuse my self.

peace&smiles

am seriously looking for a soul mate,but there are lots of fake women out here

For myself I work a lot so it comes down to time and if the schedules match up.

it takes time and effort to get to know people.
mingle does have good people on here. ZIPPY and I met each other on here. we met in person after time becoming friends and exchanging messages.
have patience. good luck.

if it's any help, most of the profiles on here with but one pic, and she's fairly cute, are the fakes...

most with only a "hi", tell ya later...

and the profile will be written in broken English...

as far as soul mates...

the world at large be looking...

but truly, one has to convert it's own "want energy", to "connection" energy...

so one can't be thinking of it's own list of wants, when meeting people.

or they will sense that...

and no connection will be made.

which of course, if one is talking "soulmates", thats heavy deep want...

first connections...

so, one must program it self to think of wishing to know what others want, and seeing all people as equal in value, no longer seaing or basing the potential value of people based upon the self wants...

hehehe...

then, one will have to use tactics to keep away people it self does not find equal interests in life with.

hope that helps.

smiles

I am terrified of dating. Im not really sure how to get past my fear. I had an alcoholic, abusive, cheating ex husband whom I loved so much.. I havent dated in almost 3 years since I divorced him... any suggestions to alleviate my fear??