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Topic: Why men
theseacoast's photo
Wed 12/31/14 06:39 PM
...prefare women who play games with them? And are totally indifferent? Or bad behavioured to them?

davidben1's photo
Wed 12/31/14 06:40 PM
the first one to call another for playing games, one will find is the most game player.


happy new year!

smokin drinker smokin

kc0003's photo
Wed 12/31/14 06:41 PM
this phenomenon doesn't seem to be gender specific.

theseacoast's photo
Wed 12/31/14 06:46 PM

the first one to call another for playing games, one will find is the most game player.


happy new year!

smokin drinker smokin


I�m really not a game player DB happy wish I would be - easier life happy

happy N�w Year sir, my hat bow down flowerforyou

theseacoast's photo
Wed 12/31/14 06:46 PM
Edited by theseacoast on Wed 12/31/14 06:49 PM
yes KC, I guess it�s both side game, thanks for the comment, you�re right flowerforyou but still, why is it so interesting in being played?

Mysteriousou812's photo
Wed 12/31/14 07:02 PM
Should men come right out and say what we want?

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 12/31/14 07:07 PM

...prefare women who play games with them?


Because it is difficult to play Rummy, Scrabble, Monopoly and Checkers by yourself.

davidben1's photo
Wed 12/31/14 07:10 PM


the first one to call another for playing games, one will find is the most game player.


happy new year!

smokin drinker smokin


I�m really not a game player DB happy wish I would be - easier life happy

happy N�w Year sir, my hat bow down flowerforyou


and i bow bow low unto you.

flowerforyou smokin flowerforyou

davidben1's photo
Wed 12/31/14 07:13 PM

Should men come right out and say what we want?


indeed, yes yes, for life would be better for all involved if both sexes did just that.

and each just focused on finding what was agreeable to both the two.

hence, manipulations to try to get for one self would become a thing of ancient history...

since history has proven manipulations of others fail in the long run anyhow.

smokin glasses smokin

theseacoast's photo
Wed 12/31/14 07:15 PM

Should men come right out and say what we want?


didn�t get it. I don�t need anybody to say me what I want, but what is the truth - that�s all what matters

But the topic is not about saying the truth or not - it�s more about our desire to get someone we (sometimes know) sometimes guess that just playes games with us (cheat us, lies to us etc) but we still want only him/her. Why?

davidben1's photo
Wed 12/31/14 07:29 PM


Should men come right out and say what we want?


didn�t get it. I don�t need anybody to say me what I want, but what is the truth - that�s all what matters

But the topic is not about saying the truth or not - it�s more about our desire to get someone we (sometimes know) sometimes guess that just playes games with us (cheat us, lies to us etc) but we still want only him/her. Why?


to help us, to cure us, to help make us mentally actually factually strong, strong enough mentally to stop listening and jumping like blind monkey's at our wants, versus heeding our own brains wisdom.

smokin flowerforyou smokin

theseacoast's photo
Wed 12/31/14 07:29 PM


Should men come right out and say what we want?


indeed, yes yes, for life would be better for all involved if both sexes did just that.

and each just focused on finding what was agreeable to both the two.

hence, manipulations to try to get for one self would become a thing of ancient history...

since history has proven manipulations of others fail in the long run anyhow.

smokin glasses smokin



Gosh, DB, you�re talking from my soul. I would really bow down my hat if such amoticon would be here - so you have to imagine that.
once I was in a same situation when I was played, knew about it but still hoped and returned so many times - until i broked down and realised I�m just tired of all lies and manipulations. Now I don�t feel absolutely anything to the man I thought once I would die for him.
I�m really not a stupid one but still I felt it that way. But why we act like this. Like moths lured to light. Even if we know there is darkness?

theseacoast's photo
Wed 12/31/14 07:37 PM



Should men come right out and say what we want?


didn�t get it. I don�t need anybody to say me what I want, but what is the truth - that�s all what matters

But the topic is not about saying the truth or not - it�s more about our desire to get someone we (sometimes know) sometimes guess that just playes games with us (cheat us, lies to us etc) but we still want only him/her. Why?


to help us, to cure us, to help make us mentally actually factually strong, strong enough mentally to stop listening and jumping like blind monkey's at our wants, versus heeding our own brains wisdom.

smokin flowerforyou smokin




Yess DB, guess you�re right. Bow, bow down low.

That was maybe the hardest lesson of my life. And that�s why even when I want different I just know I have to act in the opposit way.

And now comes the question? Why life has to be so hard?

davidben1's photo
Wed 12/31/14 07:40 PM



Should men come right out and say what we want?


indeed, yes yes, for life would be better for all involved if both sexes did just that.

and each just focused on finding what was agreeable to both the two.

hence, manipulations to try to get for one self would become a thing of ancient history...

since history has proven manipulations of others fail in the long run anyhow.

smokin glasses smokin







Gosh, DB, you�re talking from my soul. I would really bow down my hat if such amoticon would be here - so you have to imagine that.
once I was in a same situation when I was played, knew about it but still hoped and returned so many times - until i broked down and realised I�m just tired of all lies and manipulations. Now I don�t feel absolutely anything to the man I thought once I would die for him.
I�m really not a stupid one but still I felt it that way. But why we act like this. Like moths lured to light. Even if we know there is darkness?



i feel ya...

we all been there done it...

it all present itself to us, to tempt us...

to help us, to cure us, to make us mentally actually factually strong, strong enough mentally to stop listening and jumping like blind monkey's at our own wants wished blindly...

to teach us to heed our own brains wisdoms versus jumpsing at good for our self.

for fools rush in.

smokin drinker smokin


theseacoast's photo
Wed 12/31/14 07:57 PM




Should men come right out and say what we want?


indeed, yes yes, for life would be better for all involved if both sexes did just that.

and each just focused on finding what was agreeable to both the two.

hence, manipulations to try to get for one self would become a thing of ancient history...

since history has proven manipulations of others fail in the long run anyhow.

smokin glasses smokin



Gosh, DB, you�re talking from my soul. I would really bow down my hat if such amoticon would be here - so you have to imagine that.
once I was in a same situation when I was played, knew about it but still hoped and returned so many times - until i broked down and realised I�m just tired of all lies and manipulations. Now I don�t feel absolutely anything to the man I thought once I would die for him.
I�m really not a stupid one but still I felt it that way. But why we act like this. Like moths lured to light. Even if we know there is darkness?



i feel ya...

we all been there done it...

it all present itself to us, to tempt us...

to help us, to cure us, to make us mentally actually factually strong, strong enough mentally to stop listening and jumping like blind monkey's at our own wants wished blindly...

to teach us to heed our own brains wisdoms versus jumpsing at good for our self.

for fools rush in.

smokin drinker smokin





yes, yes and yes

but still wish noone would go through all I got through. Wish I could stop this. And for everyone the path would be smooth.

davidben1's photo
Wed 12/31/14 08:08 PM





Should men come right out and say what we want?


indeed, yes yes, for life would be better for all involved if both sexes did just that.

and each just focused on finding what was agreeable to both the two.

hence, manipulations to try to get for one self would become a thing of ancient history...

since history has proven manipulations of others fail in the long run anyhow.

smokin glasses smokin



Gosh, DB, you�re talking from my soul. I would really bow down my hat if such amoticon would be here - so you have to imagine that.
once I was in a same situation when I was played, knew about it but still hoped and returned so many times - until i broked down and realised I�m just tired of all lies and manipulations. Now I don�t feel absolutely anything to the man I thought once I would die for him.
I�m really not a stupid one but still I felt it that way. But why we act like this. Like moths lured to light. Even if we know there is darkness?



i feel ya...

we all been there done it...

it all present itself to us, to tempt us...

to help us, to cure us, to make us mentally actually factually strong, strong enough mentally to stop listening and jumping like blind monkey's at our own wants wished blindly...

to teach us to heed our own brains wisdoms versus jumpsing at good for our self.

for fools rush in.

smokin drinker smokin





yes, yes and yes

but still wish noone would go through all I got through. Wish I could stop this. And for everyone the path would be smooth.


and you can...

and will you be allowed to...

to help others have a less painful journey...

the prize of the truly yearning and caring of more good for others.

and when that be the most most most wish, one has while alive, then it become as immediately so.

which indeed, be why all that occurred to one self, was allowed to occur, to create such deep real life reality divine caring as empathy for others.

peace angel gal.

theseacoast's photo
Wed 12/31/14 08:34 PM






Should men come right out and say what we want?


indeed, yes yes, for life would be better for all involved if both sexes did just that.

and each just focused on finding what was agreeable to both the two.

hence, manipulations to try to get for one self would become a thing of ancient history...

since history has proven manipulations of others fail in the long run anyhow.

smokin glasses smokin



Gosh, DB, you�re talking from my soul. I would really bow down my hat if such amoticon would be here - so you have to imagine that.
once I was in a same situation when I was played, knew about it but still hoped and returned so many times - until i broked down and realised I�m just tired of all lies and manipulations. Now I don�t feel absolutely anything to the man I thought once I would die for him.
I�m really not a stupid one but still I felt it that way. But why we act like this. Like moths lured to light. Even if we know there is darkness?



i feel ya...

we all been there done it...

it all present itself to us, to tempt us...

to help us, to cure us, to make us mentally actually factually strong, strong enough mentally to stop listening and jumping like blind monkey's at our own wants wished blindly...

to teach us to heed our own brains wisdoms versus jumpsing at good for our self.

for fools rush in.

smokin drinker smokin





yes, yes and yes

but still wish noone would go through all I got through. Wish I could stop this. And for everyone the path would be smooth.


and you can...

and will you be allowed to...

to help others have a less painful journey...

the prize of the truly yearning and caring of more good for others.

and when that be the most most most wish, one has while alive, then it become as immediately so.

which indeed, be why all that occurred to one self, was allowed to occur, to create such deep real life reality divine caring as empathy for others.

peace angel gal.



there are times I think I just cannot transfere my experiences to someone else and that�s the pain when I see others suffering same as I did and can�t do anything with that. Just be silent witness of their pain.
May I hug you DB? Thank you for you words flowerforyou

davidben1's photo
Wed 12/31/14 08:42 PM
those that cannot feel your hug, no matter the miles, feel not true reality yet.

flowerforyou drinker flowerforyou

theseacoast's photo
Wed 12/31/14 08:49 PM
Hug to you Davidben and thank you for your comfort flowerforyou All the best in a brand New Year! waving

Totage's photo
Wed 12/31/14 11:33 PM

...prefare women who play games with them? And are totally indifferent? Or bad behavioured to them?


I guess its due to immaturity and lack of understanding. I've never been one to have any interest or tolerance in that nonsense, so I'm just guessing from my own perspective. I have found that women tend to find a need to play certain mind games. I don't know of its from being played their self or what, but I have no tolerance for it. I don't respect a guy who feels the need to play such games either. Just be adult about it.

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