The strangest thing has happened over the last few weeks. My ex ran off with another woman a year ago and recently married her. He is in another town altogether now. We do not speak anymore, and my replacement doesn't want him speaking to me. His mother lives in Canada and is a nurse. The last few weeks I have been receiving mail addressed to her at my home. (We never had the opportunity to meet). These appear to be potential job opportunities or ads for jobs in the nursing field. He has been long gone from here, and I wonder why all of a sudden I am getting mail for his mother here. The entire time he lived with me, I never received mail for her. Doesn't she know he married someone else? And is living in another city? (Knowing HIM.....it's possible she may not.) Doesn't make sense! Here is my dilemma: Do I package up the mail and send it to her son, asking him to correct the situation? Or do I just mark it Return to Sender..not at this address?

if i were you i would just do the return to sender not at this address it seems he dont want to play nice so just send it back

Well you could put them all back in a bigger package letter and put a note with his mother address on it and tell her sorry, but your not married to her son and she need's to stop sending you letters.

Or just put them all back in the mail as refuse with wrong address as you said.

Don't know since I never been in that type of spot before.

mark it return to sender..save your self the grief from possibly having to deal with him at all

"Return to Sender", that's my vote. Let her talk to him about it.

Well unknowing he has made a mistake and left you, she is on her way to live with him and YOU,,,,, hmmmmmmmmmmmm

See, he has never had the nerve to tell her the truth and reveal the mistake that he made.....


SO I would lock the doors...



My .02

you are getting mail for his MOTHER? whom you never met? and you think they are job offers? That is too weird! burn em!

Thanks everyone! Return to Sender it is!

i would send the mother a nice note along with the job announcements saying that you think your x husband is married to someone else now, and maybe she would like to know about it. see what happens.

OMg...IRon...too funny! Yeah...he made a mistake alright!

Oh Duffy! That's funny. I am really beginning to wonder if she even knows.....I wasn't married to him, but we were together 4 years and engaged at the time he decided to run off and get engaged to my replacement whom he only knew for 6 weeks....

i agree with everyone here return to sender...

congrats & be happy in your new relationship

The other choices are 'trash can' and 'call the cops'. My personal vote is 'trash can.' Someone other than you is using your address for reasons best known only to themselves.

Arcade...not in new relationship..... I WAS engaged to the one that ran off.....

sorry didn't read your message after i posted mine

Return to sender or trash 'em. No need to ponder it anymore.

Agreed Bay Gal. Thanks all!