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Oh wait, maybe both the original and her friend are in on it! Since you dated them both they're playing some sort of psych game on you. The plot sickens... hi TS, when I first read your post I did wonder if you were asking yourself if the girls swing both ways. but I do have to say I agree with mini1x. women (and guys on here) do talk to each other. I can tell you, from my early interactions here on only the forums, I found out that some women feel proprietary about men. I would respond to something in the forums and get inboxed by some woman (one in particular) who said in case you don't know, that man is taken. I can tell you for a while my best friend had her own account on here. there were guys who were trying to sweet talk her and me at the same time. so far as to set up a date with her one weekend and me the next weekend. we decided we were both going to show up for hers and act like we got our days mixed up. the guy never showed so we enjoyed our 'date' with each other. so I do think that someone could be trying to mess with you. I'm not sure what you're getting at but I don't think that she thinks that I'm after other women or still involved with the other one. Yes, they are all friends and obviously talk to each other but they are quite different sorts of girls. The ex was a floozy and this girl says that she isn't like that and doesn't seem to me. She even said that she had heard stories about the ex, who obviously has a reputation. Yes, there's most possibly something going on, although it might not be anything sinister and although I have been getting to know this girl for months, she's a bit quiet or secretive in a way. I'm just putting that down to her personality mostly though. She's had some sadness in her life and bottles her feelings up a bit. |
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Oh wait, maybe both the original and her friend are in on it! Since you dated them both they're playing some sort of psych game on you. The plot sickens... hi TS, when I first read your post I did wonder if you were asking yourself if the girls swing both ways. but I do have to say I agree with mini1x. women (and guys on here) do talk to each other. I can tell you, from my early interactions here on only the forums, I found out that some women feel proprietary about men. I would respond to something in the forums and get inboxed by some woman (one in particular) who said in case you don't know, that man is taken. I can tell you for a while my best friend had her own account on here. there were guys who were trying to sweet talk her and me at the same time. so far as to set up a date with her one weekend and me the next weekend. we decided we were both going to show up for hers and act like we got our days mixed up. the guy never showed so we enjoyed our 'date' with each other. so I do think that someone could be trying to mess with you. I'm not sure what you're getting at but I don't think that she thinks that I'm after other women or still involved with the other one. Yes, they are all friends and obviously talk to each other but they are quite different sorts of girls. The ex was a floozy and this girl says that she isn't like that and doesn't seem to me. She even said that she had heard stories about the ex, who obviously has a reputation. Yes, there's most possibly something going on, although it might not be anything sinister and although I have been getting to know this girl for months, she's a bit quiet or secretive in a way. I'm just putting that down to her personality mostly though. She's had some sadness in her life and bottles her feelings up a bit. it's really not my place to say, but just be careful. if there's something you're not sure about, maybe there's a reason. if the young lady has already gone through difficult times, be gentle with her emotions. wish you all the best |
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So, I saw my young lady friend tonight and told her about all of this. She thought that it was funny but was a bit angry about it and says that she's going to have a word with her friend, who is kind of best friends with the crazy one that I was dating last year.
My lady friend suggested that the girl could have been posting on Facebook during psychotic episodes and that the friend knew about the swan accident story. What's still weird now though is that this person that's engaged to my ex has the same first name as my current lady friend's dog and the dog's name is Shanty; a highly unusual name. How many Shanties do you know? Also, there's another friend, who has a relative on that friends list called Storm and also a dog called Storm. Now, this girl that I'm friendly with only met these others about a year ago and she tells me that she doesn't go on Facebook at all. The rest of them are obviously nutcases but this girl isn't. |
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So, I saw my young lady friend tonight and told her about all of this. She thought that it was funny but was a bit angry about it and says that she's going to have a word with her friend, who is kind of best friends with the crazy one that I was dating last year. My lady friend suggested that the girl could have been posting on Facebook during psychotic episodes and that the friend knew about the swan accident story. What's still weird now though is that this person that's engaged to my ex has the same first name as my current lady friend's dog and the dog's name is Shanty; a highly unusual name. How many Shanties do you know? Also, there's another friend, who has a relative on that friends list called Storm and also a dog called Storm. Now, this girl that I'm friendly with only met these others about a year ago and she tells me that she doesn't go on Facebook at all. The rest of them are obviously nutcases but this girl isn't. There you go, looks like you solved this case. |
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So, she told me that she went and had a word with her about it and was told that she was just doing it to wind me up.
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