I can be happy being single or I can be miserable,,,,the choice is mine....Happiness is a "personal" responsibility...It's about attitude, not status...

To everything in life there is a cost......

The question one needs to ask.....

What are you willing to pay

Good morning,night,evening day whatever ,just want say that being happy is one our main priority,and no,I DON'T want to stay single,just wanted to get that out the way so there's no misunderstanding,ok think maybe some of you folks here maybe able to relate to this,I've noticed for a little while now that I'm actually happy and comfortable with being this way,so being happy is good right?That's the good part,now here's the thing,there's still that empty space,while I hardly never feel lonely,there's still that desire to fill that empty space,SO,,I started to wonder,how good is being happy and comfortable in a case as such?Please share your thoughts!!

There's nothing wrong being in a gay state of mind. ;)

Me...I don't want to be hurt any more...figure if I stay alone I will be ok...I would love to meet someone that could understand me...but I know it won't happen...so I choose to be alone and love everyone...I would rather be alone and happy then with someone that likes to break my heart...lonely...yup...but at least I don't worry about what I'm doing wrong anymore...I like happy way better then trying to make someone else happy...but I wish the best to those that need someone to make themselves happy...blah blah blah...geez I babble...lol...

Many of us have or do feel much the same way. When things don't work out you start to think they can't work out. That is false logic however. Things don't work out because we keep making the same mistakes or we keep fishing in the same pond.

Totally to my surprise, I recently met someone who seems to be the perfect fit when I thought a perfect fit was a crazy dream.

If you don't want a catfish, move to the trout stream! Change your blood bait to an artificial lure. Get rid of the cork. You may get the fight of your life but end up with a trophy on the wall (or couch).