Any ideas why it is so difficult to find chemistry and attraction that go hand and hand? There are lot's of single attractive people out there. But, making that special connection is rare.

Then if you are lucky enough the have the chemistry how do
you keep remain compatible for the long term?

I am interested in hearing others thought on this subject.

Thank you.

remain attracted to yourself

in all endeavors

you'll love others

and if it's meant to be, they'll like sticking around too

Hi looking! Welcome!

If we had the answers we wouldn't be on this site, would we???

Good luck!

good answer bayarea

GET RID OF THE STASH AND BEARD AND U WILL GET LAYED INSTANTLY

golden...

some women like beards, facial hair....

BUT U HAVE TO BE ABLE TO PULL IT OFF A CERTAIN WAY LIKE AT LEAST KEEP IT TRIMMED UP AND STUFF

You folks are too funny. The topic had nothing
to do with beards, facial hair, BIG Breasts, etc.

the chemistry never goes away...but the rest takes work and no one wants to work at a relationship or anything else for that matter...b

I'M JUST SAYING TRIM IT UP A BIT A THE CHEMISTRY WILL SURROUND U COMPLETELY

I don't know lot's of relationships end because the
attraction and chemistry is gone. Even though the people
may be compatible. But, maybe you are right people just
don't want to work on the relationship hard enough.

btw i think the facial hair should stay

Golden if I shaved my face, maybe that type of girl
would have chemistry for me. Still doesn't mean I would
have chemistry for her.

Thank you bgeorge. Actually I would be naked without my goatee.

i like gotees!!

Well we could change this discussion to should I shave or not?

looking...

See what you started, you should have known not to post on chemistry and attraction, but on how long your goatee can be...



Anyway....back to chemistry and attraction. I know I have settled for things in past relationships. I think chemistry and attration mean a lot. I think it is rare to find it. I feel if you find it, your a lucky man. Certain people should look beyond what's on the outside and look into the other person's eyes. That way hopefully you can see into their souls...