| Topic: What will you choose the one you love or the one who loves y | |
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      one must choose both equally to live balance, or one will wobble like a top to and fro. 
     
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      We don't really have a choice in love. I wouldn't really call the love I have for someone who doesn't love me back as true love. It's merely an unhealthy obsession or addiction I need to snap out of. Same goes to the person oh loves me without me knowing. But if somebody truly loves me, and I know it, I'd definitely love her and give her all that I gotta offer. Only a belief in oneself and ones abilities could make one a truly capable of real love.
     
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     one must choose both equally to live balance, or one will wobble like a top to and fro. I absolutely agree with davidben1.  | 
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  If it TRULY is that we MUST choose on or the other, I'll happily remain 'alone' and refrain from settling.   
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      bad things happen when only one half is in love wait for the right one
     
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      one who loves me
     
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      That is a ridiculous situation for me coz nobody could ever love me but i could love someone but if the one i love doesn't love me then no point of being with either one....i would be alone  
    
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      now how can you say that unknown nobody could ever love me...
 
  I can not believe that ... their are to many reasons that people can give why they would love you and you not love them back... I would prefer both I love him he loves me ... and yes would give my all and would expect him to do the same ...  | 
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     That is a ridiculous situation for me coz nobody could ever love me but i could love someone but if the one i love doesn't love me then no point of being with either one....i would be alone   
never say that nobody could ever love you - that�s not true, or I�ll eat my boot. maybe you just didn�t notice   sometimes I do think the same about myself, but it�s not objectiv true either.
For the question: if I don�t love him, I�won�t be able to be with him - wouldn�t be able to give him all he deserves - it wouldn�t be fair and honest. And if he doesn�t love me - well, I guess it would be too painful for me, so i wouldn�t stay either.  | 
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      Love isn't real it's just a word...I've been down that road twice and after a few years they just get bored and move on...and then tell some other dude they love them...Pick the one you want the most for a short time...It's most likely gonna crash and burn anyways (isn't that how most of us ending up here lol)
     
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        theseacoast
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        Wed 12/10/14 10:22 AM
       
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     Love isn't real it's just a word...I've been down that road twice and after a few years they just get bored and move on...and then tell some other dude they love them...Pick the one you want the most for a short time...It's most likely gonna crash and burn anyways (isn't that how most of us ending up here lol) Love is a very much real thing - how would we know about it, if we would never feel it in ourselves? But not everyone can respond to our love in a way we expect or need - so we break up. To find someone who is capable - and also willing - to give his�hers love and tak� ours - that�s another question. But love does exist and is as much real as anyone of us is real. You�ll find it too   
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 sometimes I do think the same about myself, but it�s not objectiv true either.