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| Topic: On treating broken hearts (love addictions) | |
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Edited by
violet73
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Tue 12/09/14 08:53 PM
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If you are trying to get over a person you cant be with, treat it like an addiction:
1. Cut yourself off from the drug completely: Cut off all communication and reminders ��even if that means blocking numbers, emails, a social media profile, and stop checking their Facebook! This is your detox. 2. Do not involve yourself with drugs or alcohol. Do not start smoking if you are not a smoker. 3. Replace it with something better: Increase in your dhikr (remembrance of Allah) and get closer to Allah. If you are not praying your daily prayers, fix that. Pray all and pray on time. Pray qiyam in the last third of the night (just before fajr(dawn)). Make duaa (pray), tawbah (repentance), cry, plead to Allah. This is your treatment. InsyaAllah! 
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If I can't be with a certain person whom I'd prefer to be with... It beckons the question, "What is the reason I can not be with this person?"
Is this person deceased? Does this person not want to be with me? Would it be a moral impropriety to be with this person? What is the nature of this departure? 
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If I can't be with a certain person whom I'd prefer to be with... It beckons the question, "What is the reason I can not be with this person?" Is this person deceased? Does this person not want to be with me? Would it be a moral impropriety to be with this person? What is the nature of this departure?
do tahajjud and istikhara prayer. it will give you answer. Oh Allah please dont attach our heart to what is not written to be ours, ameen.
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Edited by
SheikOfLaBroquerie
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Thu 12/11/14 10:29 AM
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Sister, this wasn't a personal request. No problems here, thankfully.
I do sense some incredible level of despair in Your own past though. I decided to look at Your Mingle Profile and it seems quite tragic! May I ask You questions that maybe pertinent to Your own past and how You intend moving forward? You'll have to contact me first though, as I'm blocked from sending a text to You. |
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You'll have to contact me first though, as I'm blocked from sending a text to You. insyaAllah i ll message u soon. |
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I think I know why I can't contact You first Sister Violet.
Your Mingle Profile says only people who are 'non-drinkers' can message You, and I'm in the habit of drinking fermented beverages. I don't get drunk and I avoid anything that has questionable ingredients like Kohal. (Antimony Or Sugared-Lead) |
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Is ok, now check yur mail bro
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I decided to look at Your Mingle Profile and it seems quite tragic! May I ask You questions that maybe pertinent to Your own past and how You intend moving forward? When we understand and accept, Live like a traveller; The Prophet (saw) said, 'be in this world as if you are a stranger or a traveller.' (Bukhari)..... nothing is tragic. We try to do and pray the best, Allah will do the rest. Thanks anyway, brother
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Thank You Sister Violet73, for the private message.
This explained much and You have my deepest empathy. Insha Allah, you'll get a good Muslim Brother as a husband yet. |
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