How many of you who have read any of my recent posts/threads knew I am engaged to be married?

I review my last few conversations and wonder how anyone could have been able to deduct that little bit of information. Now whether I am having a case of guilty conscience, or second-guessing my marital status, who knows?

Any of the guys I've teased, does this anger you? Affect you in any way? Do you think it is within the relm of acceptability to "behave" the way I have "all in good fun?" If so, would you feel the same about it if it were you I were engaged to?

I mean, is it common knowledge that what is said within the confines of JSH is made up, in part, of fantasy?

Is this a mole hill I've made a mountain of?

no to al of the above

I didn't know and its not a problem you didn't agree to meet with me or anything like that ,so its all in cyberspace and in good fun no harm no foul

Whispers...

I knew you were getting married, in Nov. correct. I would change your profile...to "taken" or something like that, if guys think your available....that's not generally a good thing if you "tease" as you put it...

Respect...for your partner and yourself.

If your partner is fine with the way you conduct yourself, then everyone else can blow it out of their ear.

It's an open forum, all can read, so it comes down to you and your partner, none else.

I think if it's clear on your profile or you tell people upfront that you're unavailable, then a little harmless flirting never hurt anyone. It's fun and makes you feel good, as long as you're honest. I don't believe you and I have ever talked but it seems to me from what I've read that you've been above-board with that, so I think it's all good.