Everytime I date someone or find a guy they are always abusive or
alchoholics. Why can't I find someone for me who wants kids and marriage
and all of that stuff. Maybe someone on this site can help me out if you
can. I hope so cause I feel like its me that is the problem in all of
this crap and no one else. But all I am asking for is a nice guy who can
treat me good and love me for me and not what I do or what I can do if
you know what I mean. Well hope someone can help. bye.

You need not worry there is always someone somwhere made for just you.
So sooner or later you will surely find your life partner

Hi Hopeless. My opinion when we're attracted to and date the wrong guys
it's because were not carefully watching out for red flags, trusting our
intuition when things don't feel quite right. If you really want someone
who is a good person and treats you the way you want to treat them, you
need to be able to send the bad ones packing.

I am with Cami! Someone can only do to you what you allow them to. Just
because a man tells you that you are beautiful and they like you doesnt
mean they are the guy that you need to invest time in. I think you
should date a guy for a while before deciding that you want to commit to
him. Normally the obvious signs of psychotic imperfections will rear
their ugly head eventually. I dont know too many drunks that can keep
that underwraps for long. Everyone puts on their best face when they
first meet someone... Just get to know the guys better and don't be
afraid to let go.

Sometimes thats the problem.. you have to willing to tell yourself that
you are worth more than what he is giving you or willing to. Set high,
reasonable standards..(respect,intergrity, no drugs, 2 chances) and if
he doesnt meet those.. drop his butt.

i know how u fill i want the same things but i cant find any one lol may
be its my looks lol well ill talk to u if u want to talk to me