Topic: Why do most guys loves cyber S**?
Macy1988's photo
Thu 11/20/14 12:40 AM
Is there any guys out there who you can talk about love, friendship or just getting to knw each other without asking to show any? I only find few good guys here. I jz wanna understand more. Why most guys wants to jz play around

davidben1's photo
Thu 11/20/14 01:25 AM
to think "most guys" like cyber sex would be misleading...

if one go to a bar, most in that bar will like to drink...

most guys who like cyber sex go to the internet...

so yes, if one go online, it will find a larger poole of such.

but there are many who believe there are many things much more important than their little man down below...

and who don't follow their little man down below for making life decisions...

and who don't take commands from little man.

it's all in how keen the eye sight be, to find what one seek.

and where one look matters much too.

best luck

smiles

vikaspatel123's photo
Thu 11/20/14 01:45 AM
Do not worry, just safeguard ur self :)

wishfrd's photo
Thu 11/20/14 02:11 AM
why u think about that most of boy looking hear for cyber sex, every finger is not equal, u already get ur own medicine taste that i think ,this is the reason u are not find a frds, for that u have to first believe ur self u also have faith on others, that Leads u to ur goal
i wish u a happy life take care
bye

Macy1988's photo
Thu 11/20/14 02:27 AM

why u think about that most of boy looking hear for cyber sex, every finger is not equal, u already get ur own medicine taste that i think ,this is the reason u are not find a frds, for that u have to first believe ur self u also have faith on others, that Leads u to ur goal
i wish u a happy life take care
bye


Did u read well my post??as i told u i have frnds from here..

Macy1988's photo
Thu 11/20/14 02:36 AM

to think "most guys" like cyber sex would be misleading...

if one go to a bar, most in that bar will like to drink...

most guys who like cyber sex go to the internet...

so yes, if one go online, it will find a larger poole of such.

but there are many who believe there are many things much more important than their little man down below...

and who don't follow their little man down below for making life decisions...

and who don't take commands from little man.

it's all in how keen the eye sight be, to find what one seek.

and where one look matters much too.

best luck

smiles


Tnk u mr david... Glad to met someone like u on d site

Macy1988's photo
Thu 11/20/14 02:38 AM

Do not worry, just safeguard ur self :)


Nice reply Vikas... I love you

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Thu 11/20/14 02:39 AM
I do not like cyber sex and never have.....i prefer the real thing when im with someone face to face and on a level where ts fine to talk dirty etc

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Thu 11/20/14 02:40 AM
Edited by OnNewJourney on Thu 11/20/14 02:57 AM
Well, most men who look for hook ups or (cyber )sex just look at profile photos, some even read profile and very few (who claim they do not look for that) try to understand what they read before establishing a contact.

Since you want to meet people from all over the world, I assume there is no distance limit on your mail settings, so you can be reached by any Mingler from any part of the world.

What I really do not understand is why are some men, who do not seem to be shallow, feeling so insulted because I didn't put any photos in my profile or send any just to satisfy their curiosity.

It seems that regardless what they say, female body still plays the role and they wouldn't even talk to a woman before they see her. So, I guess mind falls on the second place.

Someone whose insightful observations pleasantly surprised me few times came to all possible wrong conclusions based on belief that I am hiding. Hmmm...!? Not. But it's good to know woman isn't appreciated if she doesn't share her photo(s) with those whom she'll most likely never meet in person.

I guess it's normal to expect her to be happy because her profile is viewed by men half her age on the other continent and even happier when those men add her to favorites list. Hmmm, really !?

So.... mind still has to be attached to a certain female body with a name tag in order to talk to her. Isn't that concept similar to those sexy female robots, real dolls or whatever those expensive toys for boys are called these days?

Long story short; Skype doesn't cost much and it takes less effort to put or remove someone from the list, than to chat or meet that person in real life.

davidben1's photo
Thu 11/20/14 02:55 AM
well, i am as nice as i am allowed to be.

your heart be kind, and that be all that matters.

like my father always told me...

it is the FIRST one to ridicule, mock, jeer others, despise, mistreat another, that always be the guilty culprit, but never allow your self to be the first one in any of these things, or you be the culprit...

and if another be the FIRST to do such things, than shame them, mock them, ridicule them, until the moment they stop such self losing tactics, but only if two things exist...

you can best them, and truly care about them, but anything else, never put your self in their presence again.

peace on your journey.

days shall become brighter since you bestowed brighter words this day.

davidben1's photo
Thu 11/20/14 02:59 AM


well, i am as nice as i am allowed to be.

your heart be kind, and that be all that matters.

like my father always told me...

it is the FIRST one to ridicule, mock, jeer others, despise, mistreat another, that always be the guilty culprit, but never allow your self to be the first one in any of these things, or you be the culprit...

and if another be the FIRST to do such things, than shame them, mock them, ridicule them, until the moment they stop such self losing tactics, but only if two things exist...

you can best them, and truly care about them, but anything else, never put your self in their presence again.

peace on your journey.

days shall become brighter since you bestowed brighter words this day.



I am not sure I follow you, but thanks for sharing a taught...


that's cuss it wasn't to you...

smiles

sorry...

it was in response to what Macy return posted.

oopsie!

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Thu 11/20/14 03:00 AM

well, i am as nice as i am allowed to be.

your heart be kind, and that be all that matters.

like my father always told me...

it is the FIRST one to ridicule, mock, jeer others, despise, mistreat another, that always be the guilty culprit, but never allow your self to be the first one in any of these things, or you be the culprit...

and if another be the FIRST to do such things, than shame them, mock them, ridicule them, until the moment they stop such self losing tactics, but only if two things exist...

you can best them, and truly care about them, but anything else, never put your self in their presence again.

peace on your journey.

days shall become brighter since you bestowed brighter words this day.



I am not sure I follow you, but thanks for sharing a taught...

davidben1's photo
Thu 11/20/14 03:03 AM
And by the way, Macy is a most beautiful name for a beautiful creature with a beautiful heart.

just for the record my 1 cent on the matter.

peace to peace

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Thu 11/20/14 03:04 AM



well, i am as nice as i am allowed to be.

your heart be kind, and that be all that matters.

like my father always told me...

it is the FIRST one to ridicule, mock, jeer others, despise, mistreat another, that always be the guilty culprit, but never allow your self to be the first one in any of these things, or you be the culprit...

and if another be the FIRST to do such things, than shame them, mock them, ridicule them, until the moment they stop such self losing tactics, but only if two things exist...

you can best them, and truly care about them, but anything else, never put your self in their presence again.

peace on your journey.

days shall become brighter since you bestowed brighter words this day.



I am not sure I follow you, but thanks for sharing a taught...


that's cuss it wasn't to you...

smiles

sorry...

it was in response to what Macy return posted.

oopsie!


Oh I see. LOL


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Thu 11/20/14 03:13 AM
Edited by OnNewJourney on Thu 11/20/14 03:23 AM
Someone once gave me an advice that it is best to avoid those who want something from you do not feel comfortable with giving to them.

So, whatever you want to share with others is up to you.Regardless what they think you should or should not do for them.

If you didn't come to hook up or look for (cyber) sex then just ignore them or even block them if they keep being pushy.

The best of luck Macy1988 flowerforyou

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Thu 11/20/14 03:45 PM
Edited by GRX on Thu 11/20/14 03:44 PM
I've never understood the appeal of cybering over the computer. Some women I've known were more into it.

I'd rather just wait for the real thing.