Topic: Thoughts From A Woman
no1phD's photo
Wed 11/19/14 06:00 PM
and having a long...hmm.. what did you call it a... list...lol.. doesn't.hurt either..drinker laugh :banana: :angel:

dcastelmissy's photo
Wed 11/19/14 06:00 PM



No, thats far from the whole list. I could go on forever, but a very short list would be...

Good head on her shoulders
Strong (spiritually, Mentally, Emotionally, and physically)
Independent (WANTS not NEEDS me in her life)
"Go getter" (Ambitious, gets things done, doesn't wait for them to fall in her lap)
Loving (Able to balance her "warrior" and "Nurturer" attributes)
"Pitt-bull Attitude" (Will bend over backwards for those she loves, but don't piss her off or she will kill you)

That's just a very short list, but should give a general idea of the kind of woman I see as "good".



You Have A Long List???


what


Sort of. I know what I want from life, and won't settle for anything less than what I know I deserve. I try not to build the perfect image of a woman in my head as that would only create unrealistic expectations and shadow chasing, but I know I don't have to settle for just any woman. I know I deserve the love of a good woman, and that's what I will find.


So right on Totage! Those are my feelings exactly! Don't ever lose sight of what you truly want!:thumbsup:

Totage's photo
Wed 11/19/14 06:36 PM




No, thats far from the whole list. I could go on forever, but a very short list would be...

Good head on her shoulders
Strong (spiritually, Mentally, Emotionally, and physically)
Independent (WANTS not NEEDS me in her life)
"Go getter" (Ambitious, gets things done, doesn't wait for them to fall in her lap)
Loving (Able to balance her "warrior" and "Nurturer" attributes)
"Pitt-bull Attitude" (Will bend over backwards for those she loves, but don't piss her off or she will kill you)

That's just a very short list, but should give a general idea of the kind of woman I see as "good".


You Have A Long List???


what


Sort of. I know what I want from life, and won't settle for anything less than what I know I deserve. I try not to build the perfect image of a woman in my head as that would only create unrealistic expectations and shadow chasing, but I know I don't have to settle for just any woman. I know I deserve the love of a good woman, and that's what I will find.


So right on Totage! Those are my feelings exactly! Don't ever lose sight of what you truly want!:thumbsup:


That's right! I finally landed my "dream job", now I just have to get my "dream woman", and MY life goals will be complete. I'm a Christian, so I will still be serving my God and doing as He wants me (as best as I can (or allow myself)).

I just try to live peacefully without getting in life's way too much. :)

Totage's photo
Wed 11/19/14 06:37 PM

and having a long...hmm.. what did you call it a... list...lol.. doesn't.hurt either..drinker laugh :banana: :angel:


Not if you know how to use it. :angel: tongue2

dcastelmissy's photo
Wed 11/19/14 06:38 PM





No, thats far from the whole list. I could go on forever, but a very short list would be...

Good head on her shoulders
Strong (spiritually, Mentally, Emotionally, and physically)
Independent (WANTS not NEEDS me in her life)
"Go getter" (Ambitious, gets things done, doesn't wait for them to fall in her lap)
Loving (Able to balance her "warrior" and "Nurturer" attributes)
"Pitt-bull Attitude" (Will bend over backwards for those she loves, but don't piss her off or she will kill you)

That's just a very short list, but should give a general idea of the kind of woman I see as "good".


You Have A Long List???


what


Sort of. I know what I want from life, and won't settle for anything less than what I know I deserve. I try not to build the perfect image of a woman in my head as that would only create unrealistic expectations and shadow chasing, but I know I don't have to settle for just any woman. I know I deserve the love of a good woman, and that's what I will find.


So right on Totage! Those are my feelings exactly! Don't ever lose sight of what you truly want!:thumbsup:


That's right! I finally landed my "dream job", now I just have to get my "dream woman", and MY life goals will be complete. I'm a Christian, so I will still be serving my God and doing as He wants me (as best as I can (or allow myself)).

I just try to live peacefully without getting in life's way too much. :)


Keep dreaming Totage! May all your dreams come true ! flowerforyou

smartwithsparks's photo
Wed 11/19/14 07:10 PM

and having a long...hmm.. what did you call it a... list...lol.. doesn't.hurt either..drinker laugh :banana: :angel:



can i see the long listwaving

Totage's photo
Wed 11/19/14 07:50 PM






No, thats far from the whole list. I could go on forever, but a very short list would be...

Good head on her shoulders
Strong (spiritually, Mentally, Emotionally, and physically)
Independent (WANTS not NEEDS me in her life)
"Go getter" (Ambitious, gets things done, doesn't wait for them to fall in her lap)
Loving (Able to balance her "warrior" and "Nurturer" attributes)
"Pitt-bull Attitude" (Will bend over backwards for those she loves, but don't piss her off or she will kill you)

That's just a very short list, but should give a general idea of the kind of woman I see as "good".


You Have A Long List???


what


Sort of. I know what I want from life, and won't settle for anything less than what I know I deserve. I try not to build the perfect image of a woman in my head as that would only create unrealistic expectations and shadow chasing, but I know I don't have to settle for just any woman. I know I deserve the love of a good woman, and that's what I will find.


So right on Totage! Those are my feelings exactly! Don't ever lose sight of what you truly want!:thumbsup:


That's right! I finally landed my "dream job", now I just have to get my "dream woman", and MY life goals will be complete. I'm a Christian, so I will still be serving my God and doing as He wants me (as best as I can (or allow myself)).

I just try to live peacefully without getting in life's way too much. :)


Keep dreaming Totage! May all your dreams come true ! flowerforyou


I make the realistic ones come true (with help of course). I'm a dreamer though, so I tend to dream beyond reality at times. lol

Totage's photo
Wed 11/19/14 07:50 PM


and having a long...hmm.. what did you call it a... list...lol.. doesn't.hurt either..drinker laugh :banana: :angel:



can i see the long listwaving


I'll show you mine, if you show me yours. :P

Astrid's photo
Wed 11/19/14 07:59 PM

smartwithsparks's photo
Wed 11/19/14 08:00 PM
I dont make lists concerning potential dates
so i guess my list would be kinda short...
maybe as follows

1.kind heart
2.humble.
3.smart and witty.
4.not afraid to speak up
5.can share real thought,not baggage..
6.must be successful,in whatever area he chose in life.

no photo
Wed 11/19/14 08:01 PM

No, thats far from the whole list. I could go on forever, but a very short list would be...

Good head on her shoulders
Strong (spiritually, Mentally, Emotionally, and physically)
Independent (WANTS not NEEDS me in her life)
"Go getter" (Ambitious, gets things done, doesn't wait for them to fall in her lap)
Loving (Able to balance her "warrior" and "Nurturer" attributes)
"Pitt-bull Attitude" (Will bend over backwards for those she loves, but don't piss her off or she will kill you)

That's just a very short list, but should give a general idea of the kind of woman I see as "good".


If you want a woman like that, this better be a self description as well. If you offer anything less, such a woman shall not even look at you. BWT life is not a shopping channel.

no photo
Wed 11/19/14 08:04 PM



and having a long...hmm.. what did you call it a... list...lol.. doesn't.hurt either..drinker laugh :banana: :angel:



can i see the long listwaving


I'll show you mine, if you show me yours. :P


So funny! rofl

smartwithsparks's photo
Wed 11/19/14 08:05 PM




and having a long...hmm.. what did you call it a... list...lol.. doesn't.hurt either..drinker laugh :banana: :angel:



can i see the long listwaving


I'll show you mine, if you show me yours. :P


So funny! rofl




how did i miss that????

journey "smack' me....lmao

no photo
Wed 11/19/14 08:06 PM
Edited by OnNewJourney on Wed 11/19/14 08:11 PM






Hmmm... But if you are not heard, why would you even listen to a person who ignores you?
So, I'll agree in most, but not in all cases.


Totage's photo
Wed 11/19/14 08:11 PM


No, thats far from the whole list. I could go on forever, but a very short list would be...

Good head on her shoulders
Strong (spiritually, Mentally, Emotionally, and physically)
Independent (WANTS not NEEDS me in her life)
"Go getter" (Ambitious, gets things done, doesn't wait for them to fall in her lap)
Loving (Able to balance her "warrior" and "Nurturer" attributes)
"Pitt-bull Attitude" (Will bend over backwards for those she loves, but don't piss her off or she will kill you)

That's just a very short list, but should give a general idea of the kind of woman I see as "good".


If you want a woman like that, this better be a self description as well. If you offer anything less, such a woman shall not even look at you. BWT life is not a shopping channel.


Life IS about choices though. I look for attributes that match my own in a woman that I want to be with. I don't expect anything from someone that I can not reciprocate. If we have conflicting personalities or beliefs (for example she's a non-Christian who needs me to make her happy and is not a go getter) than things will not work in the end. Why waste each others time and resources knowingly entering a dead end relationship? Why should I settle for someone who isn't on the same page as me (or why should she settle for me?)?

no photo
Wed 11/19/14 08:17 PM

Life IS about choices though. I look for attributes that match my own in a woman that I want to be with. I don't expect anything from someone that I can not reciprocate. If we have conflicting personalities or beliefs (for example she's a non-Christian who needs me to make her happy and is not a go getter) than things will not work in the end. Why waste each others time and resources knowingly entering a dead end relationship? Why should I settle for someone who isn't on the same page as me (or why should she settle for me?)?


Brave and bold statement, indeed, but not the words I haven't heard before... I wish you to get a chance to prove your words and get exactly what you are willing to give in return.
The best of luck! All of us can use some. LOL

no photo
Wed 11/19/14 08:19 PM
Edited by OnNewJourney on Wed 11/19/14 08:19 PM





I'll show you mine, if you show me yours. :P


So funny! rofl




how did i miss that????

journey "smack' me....lmao


No, I won't smack you.flowerforyou It happens....:laughing:


no photo
Wed 11/19/14 08:25 PM
Is there a man who can make a loooong mmmmemorries and days that seem too short following the others yet to come?
All I have seen so far are many short lived loooong lists.:laughing:

Totage's photo
Thu 11/20/14 02:39 AM


Life IS about choices though. I look for attributes that match my own in a woman that I want to be with. I don't expect anything from someone that I can not reciprocate. If we have conflicting personalities or beliefs (for example she's a non-Christian who needs me to make her happy and is not a go getter) than things will not work in the end. Why waste each others time and resources knowingly entering a dead end relationship? Why should I settle for someone who isn't on the same page as me (or why should she settle for me?)?


Brave and bold statement, indeed, but not the words I haven't heard before... I wish you to get a chance to prove your words and get exactly what you are willing to give in return.
The best of luck! All of us can use some. LOL


I've had many chances to prove my word and will probably have plenty more.

davidben1's photo
Thu 11/20/14 07:00 AM
Edited by davidben1 on Thu 11/20/14 07:02 AM
the only thing in life that can't become so is what one settled for less on.