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Topic: why is it
nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Sun 09/30/07 04:45 PM
some people act stupid when starting a relationship met this guy yesterday-- we had a nice time and talked i told him about my last relationship now he keeps bringing it up i told him not to bring him up and he keeps doing it so i got mad and hung up

KentClark123 Joined Sat 09/15/07 Posts: 136	Sun 09/30/07 04:46 PM
WOW I would of hung up to. Is he just trying to figure out what the guy did wrong so he doesnt do the samething?

WarDriverJ Joined Wed 09/19/07 Posts: 7571	Sun 09/30/07 04:46 PM
I thought one of the rules of dating was not to bring up past relationships? Not that I would know this since I haven't have a date in 3 years.

CATBW56 Joined Tue 02/20/07 Posts: 7224	Sun 09/30/07 04:47 PM
what was he trying to prove by bringing it up? Maybe to see if you were still involved with the "other" guy?

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Sun 09/30/07 04:48 PM
Whatever happens, his past relationship, your past relationship, it does not need to brought up, move along and enjoy the person you are with.

CATBW56 Joined Tue 02/20/07 Posts: 7224	Sun 09/30/07 04:48 PM
exactly irad

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Sun 09/30/07 04:48 PM
he is trying to pressure me into getting intimate and he is finding out why i liked him so much

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Sun 09/30/07 04:48 PM
sorry to hear that nurjoyce. some people just don't get it. unfortunately. although guys are notorious for having to be beat over the head with a sledgehammer but not me - i use esp

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Sun 09/30/07 04:49 PM
i agree-- the past is the past jeezzz why is it soooooooo hard to find the right person? are we just tooooooooo picky?

floridagal4uhere Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 20	Sun 09/30/07 04:51 PM
I would say In the future.. Leave the Past In the PAST. Hard to Build a Future if your still looking back towards the Past. He could have been trying to see if there was anything still there between the two of you. It also shows signs of being insecure and could also be something bothering him from his past. Cut your loses and Learn. Hope you have better luck next time.

JMellish Joined Sat 08/04/07 Posts: 644	Sun 09/30/07 04:51 PM
What exsactly did you tell him about your past relationship that he cant seem to get over?

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Sun 09/30/07 04:51 PM
so do guys want someone who "gives it up easy" or someone who is not just going to bed with just any guy?

WarDriverJ Joined Wed 09/19/07 Posts: 7571	Sun 09/30/07 04:51 PM
Kick him in the junk, that will make his dumb ass shut up.

iRon Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 2786	Sun 09/30/07 04:51 PM
Starting a relationship is stressful and makes the body make extra level of stupidtomin. That’s the chemical the body makes under the stress of the starting of any new relationship. It happens in a large amount of the population but of course mostly in men.. And thats the truth

shadowdog Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 12773	Sun 09/30/07 04:52 PM
it's not good to bring up of the past--sorry nurjoyce

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Sun 09/30/07 04:52 PM
what did i tell him? nothing much- he asked about when my last relationship was and i told him and that it lasted 1 1/2 years and why we broke up.

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Sun 09/30/07 04:52 PM
There should be zero pressure on either Joyce, go have fun and see what happens.

JMellish Joined Sat 08/04/07 Posts: 644	Sun 09/30/07 04:54 PM
Well he asked....so its his own fault. If he cant get over it. Throw him back, put some more bait on the hook, and re-cast. No time for flounders.

daleray1606 Joined Tue 03/06/07 Posts: 3642	Sun 09/30/07 04:54 PM
Hey Nurjoyce.. First I have missed you. Second I'd rahter someone not give it up to quickly.. third you are an amazing woman and will meet him some day

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Sun 09/30/07 04:54 PM
yeah joyce - you have a long list - i remember you posting it!! but here's the deal, you're lovely and you deserve the best and you should never feel pressured. that is just plain bad news.