Topic: If I didn't reply this is why!
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Sun 11/02/14 10:19 AM
Edited by OnNewJourney on Sun 11/02/14 10:23 AM
If I didn't reply this is why:


-Still married but looking?

Does your wife know? Why would any single woman with "no baggage" consider you at all? There are many single men around. Even if your wife knows and doesn't mind why would any woman be a third wheel?


-Divorced/separated/single with kids living in?

So you have time to get together on weekends and keep repeating you are a single dad and your kids are always in a first place. That's OK. As a parent you are responsible for your kids, but it is so charming to be number two and told I am not their mom.

If you never have time for yourself, how would you find time for me? There are single moms out there, so how come most single dads won't even look at them, but they want to be with single women "without baggage", who can constantly adjust to them, while they have no room for being flexible because of parenting?


-Single with following in your profile: "Hi, no answer, ask, tell you later, here is my number dear, hun" etc.

Let me guess... It doesn't work and your hugs, kisses and nudges are ignored. You blame women for wanting to chat only, not to meet. Why don't they just ask and stop wasting your time? Why would they ask or call you? Is this a site for 5 minutes hook-ups or for blind dates? No. So fill in that profile and stop calling women "dear", "hun" etc. That is very disrespectful.


-Younger than me (44)

I am not interested. I am looking for activity partner 44+


-Living in different city or country

Not convenient. That would lead to LDR and I clearly stated it is not what I am looking for.


-Activity partner interpreted as a sex partner

Read the profile. It says no intimate encounters. So, why are you wasting your time and mine? You think you have the right to try and women can say no? I think it is rude. If someone already said no, why would you ask anyways? It shows disrespect.

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Sun 11/02/14 10:50 AM

You forgot one(your profile drew me and am very interested in same things) they havn't read your profile or they would already know not to bother:smile:
If I didn't reply this is why:


-Still married but looking?

Does your wife know? Why would any single woman with "no baggage" consider you at all? There are many single men around. Even if your wife knows and doesn't mind why would any woman be a third wheel?


-Divorced/separated/single with kids living in?

So you have time to get together on weekends and keep repeating you are a single dad and your kids are always in a first place. That's OK. As a parent you are responsible for your kids, but it is so charming to be number two and told I am not their mom.

If you never have time for yourself, how would you find time for me? There are single moms out there, so how come most single dads won't even look at them, but they want to be with single women "without baggage", who can constantly adjust to them, while they have no room for being flexible because of parenting?


-Single with following in your profile: "Hi, no answer, ask, tell you later, here is my number dear, hun" etc.

Let me guess... It doesn't work and your hugs, kisses and nudges are ignored. You blame women for wanting to chat only, not to meet. Why don't they just ask and stop wasting your time? Why would they ask or call you? Is this a site for 5 minutes hook-ups or for blind dates? No. So fill in that profile and stop calling women "dear", "hun" etc. That is very disrespectful.


-Younger than me (44)

I am not interested. I am looking for activity partner 44+


-Living in different city or country

Not convenient. That would lead to LDR and I clearly stated it is not what I am looking for.


-Activity partner interpreted as a sex partner

Read the profile. It says no intimate encounters. So, why are you wasting your time and mine? You think you have the right to try and women can say no? I think it is rude. If someone already said no, why would you ask anyways? It shows disrespect.


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Sun 11/02/14 11:16 AM

You forgot one(your profile drew me and am very interested in same things) they havn't read your profile or they would already know not to bother:smile:


Yes, I did get those messages. If they didn't bother to make their own profile, why would they read mine? There is no photo in my profile. What should I conclude? That is doesn't even matter how I look. Anything goes? LOL

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Sun 11/02/14 03:00 PM

If I didn't reply this is why:


-Still married but looking?

Does your wife know? Why would any single woman with "no baggage" consider you at all? There are many single men around. Even if your wife knows and doesn't mind why would any woman be a third wheel?


-Divorced/separated/single with kids living in?

So you have time to get together on weekends and keep repeating you are a single dad and your kids are always in a first place. That's OK. As a parent you are responsible for your kids, but it is so charming to be number two and told I am not their mom.

If you never have time for yourself, how would you find time for me? There are single moms out there, so how come most single dads won't even look at them, but they want to be with single women "without baggage", who can constantly adjust to them, while they have no room for being flexible because of parenting?


-Single with following in your profile: "Hi, no answer, ask, tell you later, here is my number dear, hun" etc.

Let me guess... It doesn't work and your hugs, kisses and nudges are ignored. You blame women for wanting to chat only, not to meet. Why don't they just ask and stop wasting your time? Why would they ask or call you? Is this a site for 5 minutes hook-ups or for blind dates? No. So fill in that profile and stop calling women "dear", "hun" etc. That is very disrespectful.


-Younger than me (44)

I am not interested. I am looking for activity partner 44+


-Living in different city or country

Not convenient. That would lead to LDR and I clearly stated it is not what I am looking for.


-Activity partner interpreted as a sex partner

Read the profile. It says no intimate encounters. So, why are you wasting your time and mine? You think you have the right to try and women can say no? I think it is rude. If someone already said no, why would you ask anyways? It shows disrespect.


i just made a mental note never to send you a message, your post is loud and clear lmao
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