Mr. Right does not always
show up with
roses at your doorsteps.
Neither will Miss
Right sprout from the soil.
You have to
position yourself to be
noticed. Where?
How?
Shopping mall
Give up the habit of
shopping at smaller
supermarkets; rather, opt
for shopping
malls. One strategic way of
being spotted by
a potential lover is to
identify what he or
she may be likely to shop for
and hang
around there. A man can
hang around a wig
or hair extension shop,
while ladies can
visit menswear section to be
spotted.
Volunteer organisation
Volunteering can be a fast
card to walking
down the aisle sooner than
later.
Humanitarian organisations
like those in
charge of the elderly, health
awareness
groups or social activism
groups are usually
in need of volunteers.
Volunteer on
weekend when you have
less work to do.
This develops your ability
for social
interaction too.
Beach/swimming pools
Beaches and swimming pools
are attractive
spots for relaxation. When
going to a beach,
dress the part and have fun.
Place of worship
Never be in a hurry to run
home when the
service is over; instead
take time to
exchange pleasantries with
people. Also,
engage in one arm of the
volunteer groups.
Eateries
Bored and you have
nowhere to go? Hang at
an eatery. You do not have
to wait for
someone before you give
yourself that treat.
While you are at it, do not
exude an uptight
aura that would scare
potential suitors away
from you. Smile and politely
respond when
someone wants to share
table with you. Be
confident, strike up a good
conversation but
keep it cordial on first
occasions.
Cinemas
If you are not a movies
lover, some cinemas
have bars and spots where
to sit and drink.
Cinemas attract all kinds of
people on a
daily basis. When less busy,
hanging at a
cinema is no bad idea.
Flights
It may not happen
deliberately, but
countless relationships have
evolved from
first time meetings at the
airports or on
flights. When on a flight,
comport yourself;
you never know who is
watching you.
Bus stop/junction
You may have your
comfortable car, but
there is no laid-down rule
that says you
have to drive it always. Why
not leave the
car at home sometimes, and
walk to the bus
stop on your way to work?
The number of
singles, who are in the
neighbourhood, will
amaze you.
Social media platforms
It’s good to go on Facebook,
Twitter and
other forms of Internet
platforms to meet
people. But be careful. Never
give
information about yourself to
strangers and
make sure you know that
person well before
agreeing to meet at any
open place.
Workplace
Workplace romance still
happens. Your
colleague could be the best
person to strike
up a good relationship with.
Parties/events
Never fail to honour invites.
Countless
singles have met their dream
spouses at
birthday parties or
weddings. However, do
not attend parties for the
sole purpose of
getting picked up by
someone. Do not show
yourself as being needy or
desperate. Always
keep an open mind.

Thank you
for your
wise advice. I shall
never go shopping
at my local grocery
store again and will
only do my grocery
shopping at the local
mall. An added benefit
will be
the weight loss
from not finding what
I'm looking for while
finding what I'm
looking for.

Thumbs up.