Topic: Old Fashion!
no1phD's photo
Sun 10/26/14 12:33 PM
see ..and this is just our first date..flowerforyou laugh :angel:

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Sun 10/26/14 12:34 PM

see ..and this is just our first date..flowerforyou laugh :angel:


and our last....laugh :wink: flowerforyou :banana:

no1phD's photo
Sun 10/26/14 12:36 PM
just imagine how hot and bothered your..going to be by the .. third date...

. those fingertips. starting to feel a little bit warm..lol

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Sun 10/26/14 12:43 PM

just imagine how hot and bothered your..going to be by the .. third date...

. those fingertips. starting to feel a little bit warm..lol


You take care of imagination, I'll order....

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Sun 10/26/14 12:45 PM

flowerforyou :heart: What's the problem? In dating today women get offensive if the (MAN) shows up on a date with Flowers,opens the doors,helps with your seating,pays for the Date, and takes you home,walks you to your door, (optional) gives you a kiss. Then goes home not expecting nothing in return but maby"another date or being a Honorable Person"? Is this a thing of the past a woman is this scared of having a Real Man in her life? Or is a Control thing from the beginning? This has happened to me and i really want your outlook!!frustrated


Soooo, back to the topic of the thread here.

Obligations....depends on how "independent" the women is, and the type of man HE is.

I feel that women have always cost money in some form or another for a relationship and or sex/love is the end game. This obligation we feel is the man laying out the money for dinner, or trinkets in lieu of basically trading for some part of us. Face it, women will cost you money.

I also understand how dangerously manipulative this obligation feeling could be with a criminalistic minded man if he couldn't get what he thought was due him for the taking.

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Sun 10/26/14 12:46 PM
oops :angel:

Kindlightheart's photo
Sun 10/26/14 01:22 PM

flowerforyou :heart: What's the problem? In dating today women get offensive if the (MAN) shows up on a date with Flowers,opens the doors,helps with your seating,pays for the Date, and takes you home,walks you to your door, (optional) gives you a kiss. Then goes home not expecting nothing in return but maby"another date or being a Honorable Person"? Is this a thing of the past a woman is this scared of having a Real Man in her life? Or is a Control thing from the beginning? This has happened to me and i really want your outlook!!frustrated
Geez...that sounds like a "perfect" date...although I can say I haven't had a date like that in years...hence why I am on this site...determined to believe gentlemen exist...I must give you a gold star on my gentleman list..:wink:

graywolf55's photo
Sun 10/26/14 01:55 PM
laugh I wasn't sure this would make it past 6 answers from the beginning. But it seems it took off for awhile as an explicit orgie of words? I'm glad it was brought back to topic ask and hope it continues with respect as was shown by me in the beginning! Some seem too demanding others falter and of course the dreamer? I hear the reports of daterape,the expectations of both men and women in dating of today. That does not classify all men or women in dating ! Just classifies you in your answers and thoughts in dating. Personally i don't expect anything in entertaining a Lady and hope they don't stereotype me to others past!! But of course it will happen 99 times out of 100 because of some of these remarks on this topic. I'm batting better than that average now counting the responses made now. So continue please, (My learning now)!drinks rofl

Kindlightheart's photo
Sun 10/26/14 02:00 PM
So kinda curious...with " online dating"... Say you find someone that lives in another state and over the course of getting to know eachother through chatting , phone calls, ect...if you agreed to perhaps meet and only had several days together...should I take my laptop or phone out on a couple nights out, hook up a video chat deal so when we do actually meet it's not exactly our first date,...lol...flowerforyou ...start with flowers..:wink:

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Sun 10/26/14 02:02 PM

flowerforyou :heart: What's the problem? In dating today women get offensive if the (MAN) shows up on a date with Flowers,opens the doors,helps with your seating,pays for the Date, and takes you home,walks you to your door, (optional) gives you a kiss. Then goes home not expecting nothing in return but maby"another date or being a Honorable Person"? Is this a thing of the past a woman is this scared of having a Real Man in her life? Or is a Control thing from the beginning? This has happened to me and i really want your outlook!!frustrated


Im so proud if my date do that for me.Idid not experienced that kind of treatment.

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Sun 10/26/14 02:07 PM


flowerforyou :heart: What's the problem? In dating today women get offensive if the (MAN) shows up on a date with Flowers,opens the doors,helps with your seating,pays for the Date, and takes you home,walks you to your door, (optional) gives you a kiss. Then goes home not expecting nothing in return but maby"another date or being a Honorable Person"? Is this a thing of the past a woman is this scared of having a Real Man in her life? Or is a Control thing from the beginning? This has happened to me and i really want your outlook!!frustrated
Geez...that sounds like a "perfect" date...although I can say I haven't had a date like that in years...hence why I am on this site...determined to believe gentlemen exist...I must give you a gold star on my gentleman list..:wink:
drinks I consider myself a Man and don't give graphic sexual encounters in posts or private messages to a lady!! I exist just wondering if i'm not extinct?frustrated Just because i own a boat, does not mean i can survive a flood!

AMILIA1724's photo
Sun 10/26/14 02:11 PM



flowerforyou :heart: What's the problem? In dating today women get offensive if the (MAN) shows up on a date with Flowers,opens the doors,helps with your seating,pays for the Date, and takes you home,walks you to your door, (optional) gives you a kiss. Then goes home not expecting nothing in return but maby"another date or being a Honorable Person"? Is this a thing of the past a woman is this scared of having a Real Man in her life? Or is a Control thing from the beginning? This has happened to me and i really want your outlook!!frustrated
Geez...that sounds like a "perfect" date...although I can say I haven't had a date like that in years...hence why I am on this site...determined to believe gentlemen exist...I must give you a gold star on my gentleman list..:wink:
drinks I consider myself a Man and don't give graphic sexual encounters in posts or private messages to a lady!! I exist just wondering if i'm not extinct?frustrated Just because i own a boat, does not mean i can survive a flood!


oh, be patient graywolf shes there,somewhere.

graywolf55's photo
Sun 10/26/14 02:22 PM
laugh Hell; i'm in no hurry at all! I'm doing just fine on my own (for now) later really who cares?winking :angel:

Argo's photo
Sun 10/26/14 02:28 PM
it's my experience that being a gentleman will never go out of style...
and if a woman can't appreciate that i am one...well then, i wouldn't consider her to be a lady....my first online date was with a woman who told me her, and her dog, were a package deal.....so, i presented her with an inexpensive scented candle and a box of milk-bone treats for her dog...
cost me about 4 dollars...the tears it brought to her eyes....priceless...

Kindlightheart's photo
Sun 10/26/14 02:37 PM



flowerforyou :heart: What's the problem? In dating today women get offensive if the (MAN) shows up on a date with Flowers,opens the doors,helps with your seating,pays for the Date, and takes you home,walks you to your door, (optional) gives you a kiss. Then goes home not expecting nothing in return but maby"another date or being a Honorable Person"? Is this a thing of the past a woman is this scared of having a Real Man in her life? Or is a Control thing from the beginning? This has happened to me and i really want your outlook!!frustrated
Geez...that sounds like a "perfect" date...although I can say I haven't had a date like that in years...hence why I am on this site...determined to believe gentlemen exist...I must give you a gold star on my gentleman list..:wink:
drinks I consider myself a Man and don't give graphic sexual encounters in posts or private messages to a lady!! I exist just wondering if i'm not extinct?frustrated Just because i own a boat, does not mean i can survive a flood!
You just went to platinum!!..I have been on this site for only a couple months and I can't believe how many men just two or three post into a conversation take it to a crude nasty level...I almost dropped out but found the forums and enjoy these...and your not extinct...just a rare breed...perhaps one day the world will find away for more of you to surface..I hope you keep it up cause there is a rare breed of women out there that appreciate men like you..

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Sun 10/26/14 02:57 PM



flowerforyou :heart: What's the problem? In dating today women get offensive if the (MAN) shows up on a date with Flowers,opens the doors,helps with your seating,pays for the Date, and takes you home,walks you to your door, (optional) gives you a kiss. Then goes home not expecting nothing in return but maby"another date or being a Honorable Person"? Is this a thing of the past a woman is this scared of having a Real Man in her life? Or is a Control thing from the beginning? This has happened to me and i really want your outlook!!frustrated
Geez...that sounds like a "perfect" date...although I can say I haven't had a date like that in years...hence why I am on this site...determined to believe gentlemen exist...I must give you a gold star on my gentleman list..:wink:
drinks I consider myself a Man and don't give graphic sexual encounters in posts or private messages to a lady!! I exist just wondering if i'm not extinct?frustrated Just because i own a boat, does not mean i can survive a flood!


When you find a woman as genuine as you are, you will click. There will be nothing that you could do to tear her from you. flowers

technovative's photo
Sun 10/26/14 03:23 PM

it's my experience that being a gentleman will never go out of style...
and if a woman can't appreciate that i am one...well then, i wouldn't consider her to be a lady....my first online date was with a woman who told me her, and her dog, were a package deal.....so, i presented her with an inexpensive scented candle and a box of milk-bone treats for her dog...
cost me about 4 dollars...the tears it brought to her eyes....priceless...


:thumbsup:

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Sun 10/26/14 03:27 PM
Though it has been a while, one way to my heart is opening doors for me..

Justfun_1's photo
Sun 10/26/14 04:00 PM
It seems to work both ways for me.From what i have noticed,only a lady will understand and appreciate a romantic gentleman.Unless i have got to know her extremely well beforehand,i wouldn't usually do flowers on a first date,but i would give her chocolates if i knew she enjoyed that particular pleasure.As far as opening doors for her etc,i was brought up that way.I wouldn't order food for her unless she asked me to,i think that's a bit presumptuous.But i like to think i am observant and attentive,so i watch for signs to see if she expects that.My last date didn't turn into a romance,but we became great friends,and she gets Swiss chocolate each time we meet,just like she did on the date.After all,she is still a lady :smile:

graywolf55's photo
Sun 10/26/14 06:11 PM
winking I've been wondering what a topic like this would bring on mingle, and some good was brought to the top revealing there are still respect-selfrespect in the answers given to me. One point for a gentleman that responded "i never order a meal for a lady nor let her order for me"! That's controlling!! Also i never pick a restraunt, but i won't eat sushi. Thank you all for protessipating in my Topic!!blushing I wish more of my friends show up and join in---- so keep it going bringing out your best of yourself and in others!! I'm sure there is more than what's already answered on here? That's another reason on my introductions i am one of the "ENDANGERED SPECIES" waving