Are you talking about kissing 'cause if anyone has their pants off it could mean sex with or without the cigar.

all depends what one wishes to create.

if she's one of beautiful mind and heart, one will wish for more than just sex, and creating a true friendship and love that will not end will be forfeited, as nearly impossible allowing this to occur before developing true deeper caring first.

but then of course such only applies to that which wishes for a loving friendship most as it's goal.

of course, sex can give an immediate physical elation, but leave one deprived of inner grandness and elation of heart, hence these will have to have more and more sex to fill the void such creates, and start a never ending cycle of not being able find true happiness as true love that does not cease, for true love create an elation of mind, body, spirit and soul, that be 100 fold greater than what any physical sex act can create.

...I have a oral fetish!! make of that what you wish .lol..you need to think slightly larger than cigar.

then the quesion becomes is oral really sex?

well honestly !!the way I do it!!... it certainly is..

it's always best to make sure before the actual date. easiest way is to send a reflectoporn pic to her, then set up a time an date to meet up

can you provide references?

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Well if your are talking about my wishes it certainly would be more than "slightly" larger than a cigar.

Have fun out there and stay safe!

Yep so true. I know a guy that waited 6 months before he had sex with his now girlfriend as they both wanted to make sure they were clean. Another thought about having sex on the date that there is a possibility that she will cry rape. Working in law enforcement; you hear that a lot.

...not only can I provide references...but a personal demonstration !!..if one requires...

...safety is my number one concern...followed closely by delivering the maximum amount of pleasure possible...orally of course lol

if u both want to hit it then i dont see a problem..

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Not usually....although sometimes its hard to resist....now kissing is a total yes...especially if I get flowers..

Having sex on the first date is not necessarily a bad thing...Sleeping with someone right away does not automatically mean you can't or don't want to have a long term relationship with them...I think women are more critical of this because they tend to analyze it much more than men...All I would say about sex on the first date is be as sure as you can be that you will not regret it the morning after and always practice safe sex (keeping in mind that even safe sex is not foolproof)...Waiting is ok too, but in all honesty it is no longer the norm...Speaking strictly for myself, I think it's pretty easy to tell when a man is only looking to get laid...If I choose to have sex with him anyway, I do it with zero expectations and take total responsibility for my actions...In other words, I don't blame him...

Many people forget about risk actually

depends on how well you hit it off