Hey there

I am starting to wonder if looking for a lover online is really productive. I have been here like for ever and not even a single message, chat or any thing??
Everyone seems to be looking for a Mr/Ms perfect. To me this a waist of time; life being so short, i think one needs to enjoy every hour of their days.Instead of just sitting down and wait.Am I the only one who's been expecting someone for so long???

Life is easier when you keep expectations low. You`ll never get disappointed.

Don't focus only on what's missing in your life.
If you do, then you will miss out on things that are happening
around you.

if you join forums i think it will help you more , as any account here dont express about her/his owner here , only by his share , existence and his thoughts that he/she post here , no one is perfect in every thing , everyone have their specialize point , for me i found an old g.f from messages but our relationship failed after 19 days , but believe me i found here on forums about 5 friends who are real people and honest friends , maybe i didnt find new and real g.f here but i still believing of that i will find her or she will find me someday , be more positive Rams127 and smile :))

if u are not happy with yourself.. how can u bring happiness to anyone else ?

There's one right there!!^^^^^^^^^^^^^

You've been here for two months!...It only seems like forever because you are not spending time in the forums...Get your butt out here and meet some awesome people ....

:-))

Yep! The forums are the way to go!

dont expect..
expectation hurts!

Thanks for your says lovelies.Yea, I need to agree that the forum is much better. I will definitely spend more time here

I agree with you Galaxie.It's just loneliness killing me.

well done Rams127 , hope you the best

You cought me...

Thanks man.It's encouraging reading what you said.

dont Let LoneLiness kiLlin'u..
its better to die in haPpineSs!

haRHar!

No. It's not. And never will be until Amazon starts delivering dates to your door by drone.


Forever is a long time.
Weird thing is there are billions of people outside your door.
Go out there.
That's where they're all at.


What did you expect?
This is like complaining about going to best buy forever and everyone seems to only want to buy the DVD's they specifically went to best buy for.


Life is short. But if you constantly look to push the happy button of enjoying each and every second then (IME) you tend to think anything that doesn't lead to your immediate enjoyment means there is something "wrong," or you start passing up everyone in front of you because you think the next choice "could" offer some greater enjoyment, especially if the person in front of you isn't offering your ideal enjoyment immediately.


No. Lots of people expect immediate gratification online and when the perfect "love of their life" doesn't manifest in a couple weeks, months, years, they feel cheated.