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Topic: Living together and sexual relations before marriage?
Tin_Tin143 Joined Fri 05/09/14 Posts: 250	Sun 10/12/14 10:10 AM Edited by Tin_Tin143 on Sun 10/12/14 10:42 AM
Would you consider living together with your bf/gf before marriage? Are there supposed to be boundaries?

mrld_ii Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 1410	Sun 10/12/14 10:13 AM
I'd require it.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Sun 10/12/14 10:28 AM
Would you consider living together with your bf/gf before marriage? Prerequisite

fleta_n_mach Joined Tue 06/24/14 Posts: 3509	Sun 10/12/14 10:30 AM Edited by fleta_n_mach on Sun 10/12/14 10:30 AM
Would you consider living together with your bf/gf before marriage? Prerequisite hey, now our vows will not come with any piece of paper!....sigh, maybe.

anuraggarv11 Joined Sun 10/12/14 Posts: 3	Sun 10/12/14 11:37 AM
may beeee nothing serious

mrld_ii Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 1410	Sun 10/12/14 11:45 AM
OP, you added this in, after I'd posted: ...Are there supposed to be boundaries? Yes. There ARE supposed to be boundaries. That's why I'd require that we live with one another before marriage to establish those boundaries...and to see if those boundaries are do-able.

danarlo10010 Joined Mon 06/25/12 Posts: 1	Sun 10/12/14 11:48 AM
yes, but no body goes by the rules as much as I seen.

stan_147 Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 3442	Sun 10/12/14 12:24 PM
I'd require it. This. You never REALLY know someone, until you live with them.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 10/12/14 04:29 PM
Would you consider living together with your bf/gf before marriage? Are there supposed to be boundaries? Yes, and she must have her own checking account. Plus cook and clean and have sex four times a day. But eh.....I ain't asking for much right?

kseey_ovie Joined Sun 10/12/14 Posts: 1	Sun 10/12/14 04:31 PM
Would you consider living together with your bf/gf before marriage? Prerequisite

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Sun 10/12/14 04:40 PM
Would you consider living together with your bf/gf before marriage? Are there supposed to be boundaries? The answers to these questions depend on one's religious and/or cultural beliefs, and not everyone has the same beliefs.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Sun 10/12/14 05:11 PM
Would you consider living together with your bf/gf before marriage? Are there supposed to be boundaries? Yes, and she must have her own checking account. Plus cook and clean and have sex four times a day. But eh.....I ain't asking for much right? With just you or anybody?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 10/12/14 05:19 PM
Would you consider living together with your bf/gf before marriage? Are there supposed to be boundaries? Yes, and she must have her own checking account. Plus cook and clean and have sex four times a day. But eh.....I ain't asking for much right? With just you or anybody? Well if she brings another woman to the house then allows me to participate then I won't stop her. I'm just saying.....I'm liberal minded that way.

traceye1983 Joined Mon 10/06/14 Posts: 129	Sun 10/12/14 05:19 PM
I don't think I know of anyone who has not lived together before marriage. Something I'll always do.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Sun 10/12/14 05:24 PM
Would you consider living together with your bf/gf before marriage? Are there supposed to be boundaries? Yes, and she must have her own checking account. Plus cook and clean and have sex four times a day. But eh.....I ain't asking for much right? With just you or anybody? That is what I was wondering.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sun 10/12/14 10:40 PM
Would you consider living together with your bf/gf before marriage? Are there supposed to be boundaries? Yes, and she must have her own checking account. Plus cook and clean and have sex four times a day. But eh.....I ain't asking for much right? With just you or anybody?

eduardo_cesar Joined Sun 10/12/14 Posts: 1	Mon 10/13/14 06:18 AM
it depends on how do you and him define 'living together', u won't know the person well until you live with him/her under one roof for a while.

ovaisi Joined Fri 11/01/13 Posts: 9	Mon 10/13/14 09:44 AM
Inbox me, i will let u know

Ɔʎɹɐx Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 4962	Mon 10/13/14 12:38 PM
I'd require it. +1 that is something you should do to find out about the hidden sides of your partner's personality , psychological or physical ..... before it's too late

lu_rosemary Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 9123	Mon 10/13/14 12:43 PM
I just can't stop laughing..ok, for a second right there I'm thinking : what if she's "Gone Girl"or he's twisted? Never now..lmao. j/k